"I am right about everything and your in trouble if you disagree with me"

Hi, I wonder what your sister and husband would do if their child was shock horror a lesbian or gay or transsexual or someone else in the queer community? Would they deny their child or deny the father in law? Would they stop their hypothetical trans child getting hormones due to this father in law issue and if so then well they may not really accept you and if they would allow the child then why can't they accept you? Really does it matter if he finds out? They cannot stop you attending family functions, you are all family members. What do your parents say about this family in law? Why do you have to hide who you are just because he is backwards? Hiding this type of issue rather than addressing it creates more homophobia rather than getting people to understand that they are lgbti people all around them and it is ok. The more people see lgbti people the more they learn it is normal. They have less cause to fear it or see our sexuality as wrong. I wonder does your mother in law know about your sexuality? Is he the only one who has an issue with it? I don't think it is fair that your family makes you live in secret, what happens when you get a partner and possibly have kids? Them does the secret spread to the next generation? Should you have to wait until he dies to be able to just live your life? It is pretty horrible that your family is choosing him over you. You aren't doing anything wrong you shouldn't have to hide. What is more important to your sister your happiness or some money that she could inherit?

 

I have a church who are the same way.
Just remember you have ec people to talk to

 

Most people are the same way at least about one subject.
religion
gay rights
no gay rights
politics
name it. if someone is passionate about an issue, they find it offensive when someone else does not share the same passion.
human nature.

 

This type of person is a bully. They try to terrorize everyone into kissing their ring and when someone refuses to play their game or by their made up rules, they have no idea what to do.

Why exactly does anyone need their respect? A more important question is what (if anything) have they ever done to earn anyone else's respect, most especially yours?

I would live in a way that is true to yourself. If this impotent twit doesn't like it, too damn bad.

Todd

 

You dont want to rush these things.

 

ECs member you may not like what I'm about to say. Do not know your age but I strongly suggest you move out if not already or lesson your exposure to FAMILY PAIN.

You cannot win against absolute stupidity. You cannot be the change in your dads life he has to be the change in his life. Some people do not GET IT and WILL NOT GET IT.

Example: I was backpacking through Southern German years ago. I stayed in a zimmer a sort of bed & breakfast to escape a rain storm. There on the wall, in the hall was a poster with the Nazi Pledge. I couldn't fricken believe it. I nearly vomited.

Escape and go live your life not theirs.

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Why do you go to that church? I suggest checking out Uniterian Universalist which advocates love and acceptance.

 

You'll always have us here (*hug*)

What I do in situations such as these is to annoy them anonymously, like swap the sugar for salt, take the batteries out the TV remote or pour the milk out of the carton and replace it with some disgusting soy milk. You know, just little things that make you feel better inside.

If that fails this company here has your solution!