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Does Anyone Think I'm attractive

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Justinian20, May 2, 2015.

  1. Justinian20

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    Just a simple question, do any gay guys here think I am an legitimately attractive guy.

    I think I am but I just want some other opinion right here.

    ---------- Post added 2nd May 2015 at 07:56 PM ----------

    (Just look at that one album I posted for a picture of me).
     
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    Your looks is just one form of attraction. There's also the more important, how you carry yourself, how you present basically. Sure, good looks may draw more eyes to you, but the right attitude and demeanor keeps them glued.

    However, for what it's worth, despite not being the sought-after demographic, I do believe you have a good basis for aesthetic attraction. You're definitely not hideous, if you were to think such about yourself.
     
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    You are definitely (at least in my opinion, for what it's worth) someone people would find attractive.

    That said, I completely agree with Kaiser. I've had the (unfortunate) not-so-pleasure of meeting a bunch of guys who were extremely attractive... but whose attitude arrived 5 minutes before they did. And there are a ton of people who are attractive and shallow, attractive and don't have much going on in the intelligence department... and so forth.

    So looks might get someone to gravitate toward you a little quicker, but it is personality, kindness, self-confidence and self-compassion that, ultimately, will attract people to you, at least the *healthy* people you hopefully want.
     
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    Kaiser comment have a really strong point
    attractive is not only based on physical appearance, it also determined by personality, attitude, demeanor, manners, intellectual (some/a lot of people find brainy is the new sexy now days) and the list keeps continue...

    if i personally have to judge you only by physical appearance criteria ALONE i would like to say that you are very-very attractive. I'm confident to say that many people will have the same opinion as i am.

    just be confident and be yourself
     
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    If you were walking down the street I would give you a second look.
     
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    Not sure what you are looking for here. An ego boost, maybe, or something to give you a bit more confidence? You look pretty good looking to me, but a smile would make you about 20 times more attractive. Some may like the moody, scowling type, but I'm not one of them. A smile, a good sense of humour and a fun attitude are more important as far as I am concerned.
     
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    Oh baby ~~~~
     
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    (looks at Justies pics)

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    ***faint***
     
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    Honest answer, no. You are good looking. But you could say I am attracted to your looks, so in a sense yes, which will make below it little more confusing-ish.

    Attractiveness comes from more than just image, personality and attitude to name just two things aid define attractiveness.
     
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    You'd be much cuter if you smile. :slight_smile: But yeah I'd say you're good looking.
     
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    I think so...in that rugged-looking, bad-boy/rebel kinda way!
     
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    Yes. Don't let anyone tell you other wise. :slight_smile: (*hug*)
     
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    yes, you're very attractive
     
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    You're pretty damn handsome!
     
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    I think you're okay. Not bad, but personally I don't get all that excited. That's only my honest opinion.

    With that stated, it's really hard to judge from a single small image, so I may be completely inaccurate. It would be hard to give a good judgement of how you actually look and how you may look in person. In addition, it appears you are frowning in said image. I bet you would look much better if you smiled or at least had a less unhappy look. You may have a resting unhappy face, but in that case I suggest smiling slightly in photos or something. :slight_smile:
     
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    WHO WOULDN'T SAY YES!?? :lol:
     
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    Yeah I'd do that XD
     
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    Oh yeah, I do:grin:
     
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    Yes your attractive, you just look pissed off in your photos. Hopefully you don't in real life. I have a pissed off resting face, so I have the same problem as you. Try to smile and seem happy more, but I don't think theres anything wrong with you.

    I'd cut your hair, but thats just my opinion, I think shorter hair is just cleaner and neater looking. A lot of people like longer hair though, I just know that most people don't have a problem with short hair and a lot more people don't like long hair. But again dn't do anything you don't want to, as said plenty of people like long hair, and you already are attractive so don't worry about that.