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closeted lesbian problems:

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by kamtra, May 14, 2015.

  1. kamtra

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    having pretend crushes on guys to fit in
     
  2. MyLittleWorld

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    Having to listen to parents when they talk about my 'future husband' , this one is the most annoying.

    Having to answer questions about guys for my siblings, friends, and dealing with teasing...

    'You are so beautiful, how is it you do not have a boyfriend?' , ugh. Having to lie lie lie, or smile awkwardly.
     
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    Getting asked if you have a boyfriend yet by family members...
     
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    we should call this therad homosexual problems... :wink:
     
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    I made a list of "hot" guys in my school with my sister and her friends... It was the worst
     
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    Working up the courage to come out and only receiving dismissive responses.
     
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    Any conversation that involves me meeting a man and getting married to him and having children just makes me feel more guilty about not coming out. Especially when my mom gets all serious and says to make sure he treats me right and loves me, which at that point I feel even more awful.
     
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    People asking why I don't have a boyfriend

    Family members keep trying to hook me up

    Having guys think they have a chance with me
     
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    I'm not closeted anymore (as of January) but yes, I can remember make a blundering idiot of myself when asked if I had "any lovely man" on the scene. And my Mum being convinced that my fascination with this advert https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-Kqmx-5QTo was my first love of boys when it fact it was my first love of wild swimming.
     
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    Continuously watching cute couples on YouTube and wishing I had a girlfriend. One day I keep saying to myself.
     
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    People constantly making comments (sometimes sexual) and pressuring you to like/date your guy friends- even if you don't have romantic or sexual feelings for them at all.