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Would you marry?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by 447, May 17, 2015.

  1. 447

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    I think that if I felt like I'd experimented enough and really knew what I did/didn't like, I'd marry a nice guy and perhaps have a few kids. (Adopt, because I'm gay but you get the point) Which brings kids into the question! Do you want to have/adopt some or no?
     
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    I'm hoping to both marry and have kids some day. I have a boyfriend and it's getting pretty serious, we both have plans for having kids so time will tell...
     
  3. HunGuy

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    Marriage is not for me, it means nothing. If two people get along well, they don't need a paper to prove their love for each other. As for kids, also not for me. I won't spend 20+ years of my life raising another human being.
     
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    I do want to marry a nice guy or girl one day - I could see myself with either even if I do prefer women. I also want kids, but my health problems mean any biological kids I have will be guaranteed to have problems of their own, so I may have to adopt down the line.
     
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    I still do have that dream of a fairytale wedding. Hold the Prince Charming:slight_smile: No kids. Not going to happen. Nope.
     
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    I don't want either, but if I were with someone I really loved and to whom not having those things would be a deal breaker, let's say I'd keep an open mind, especially about marriage, kids are a trickier matter.
     
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    I'd like to marry someone at some point later on, As for kids, It's a maybe for now.
     
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    Hmm why this question bring this song to my mind?

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    Anyway depending on the person I would. Believe me a guy who can make me think about marriage would be a definete catch. :grin:
     
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    I suppose it depends if I find a guy desperate enough to get married to want to marry me. :lol:

    Seriously...I don't know. At times, it's been a fantasy. At other times, I think I'm happy being single. Truth is: it all depends on whether that special guy comes along.

    As for children, I can't say I have much if any desire at this point.
     
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    arfff

    marry a guy (if i ever find one) > YES

    Kids > YES if my partner also want it. but its okay if he don't want any kids because i can accept and understand that raising kids is not for everyone
     
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    I'm really not a fan of the idea of marriage, but I'm not against it, either. If I met someone to whom it really mattered and I was willing to do that for him, yeah, maybe. This is one of the things I won't know until it happens! Same with kids. I'm young, I don't want kids right now. I like kids, sometimes.Maybe I will, maybe I won't. Maybe I'll adopt, maybe I'll give birth.
     
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    Not opposed to marriage, but I also don't have somebody to discuss the possibility with. Ideally, I'd like a memorable but small wedding, so the money that would go into the wedding can go into, say, the honeymoon or, you know, bills. Practical stuff.

    As for kids. I've answered this before, so I'll condense it:

    Ideally, yes. A boy and girl. Adoption is okay with me, too. Realistically, it probably won't happen, and I don't want to be "too old" to be active with my children.
     
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    I am... married, I mean. :slight_smile:
     
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    Would I marry? If the right person came along, then yes

    Kids? I'm still undecided on this one
     
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    I'd definitely like to marry- maybe even in the next few years :slight_smile:
    And as for kids, let's see what the future brings. Not really decided it yet, but I can imagine my life with and without kids.
     
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    Nobody can tame this beast. I'm a stallion that cannot be saddled.
     
  17. randomly me

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    Marry...you mean...boundaries???0.0 RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    I'd like to marry- I don't really want to have kids at the moment but who knows, that might change.

    But anyhow I'd prefer to marry but I honestly wouldn't mind; if I had a committed girlfriend I'd be happy to just spend the rest of my life with her even if we weren't.
     
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    [YOUTUBE]ShlW5plD_40[/YOUTUBE]


    I don't really like this song, or Trainor for that matter, but y'know,


    my future husband better treat me right.



    Or sign up now for a meet and greet!







    Just kidding.
     
  20. waitwhat

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    I think I would like to get married one day. Kids however, no, I do not want kids.