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Do people ever you are dating your friend?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by talkingoutloud, May 21, 2015.

  1. talkingoutloud

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    Today in one of my classes, me and my friend were sitting on our usual table of about 3 or 4 other girls we always sit with and are kind of friends with... anyway, I saw one of them sort of giggling to the other one, and then she like made a heart sign at us and said stuff like "do you see it? so you see it too?"
    I am not even out to them yet, and they still assume I am dating one of my female friends. I'm 100% sure we are not flirting, seeing as we both like other people, so I just found it odd, and this isn't even the first time it has happened (with the one friend) especially with that group of people, and it doesn't happen with any o my other friends.

    I just found it weird and kind of funny, but yeah, just thought I'd ask for opinions and if it ever happened to any of you guys?

    ---------- Post added 21st May 2015 at 09:59 PM ----------

    *Do people ever think you are dating your friend? :") whoops
     
    #1 talkingoutloud, May 21, 2015
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  2. nohalos

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    I do! Especially that my best friend from college and I are really close and we're never really afraid of showing affection. We hug a lot, always together, we get really close... no wonder people started thinking we're together.


    But I'm gay, and she's bisexual, but we're basically sisters, so it ain't gonna happen! But it's still funny that people think we're together and we're just like "That's incest!"
     
  3. Bi in MD

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    maybe she came out and nobody let you in on it yet
     
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    Nahh, she's only told me and a couple other people, because she isn't even sure yet, so I don't reckon she would've told them.
     
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    Yes. It gets annoying
     
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    Yes, but we just played with them. We confused them to death! She would call me names and I would be sweet to her and just denied EVERYTHING when people asks :lol: She knows Im gay tho
     
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    One day I happened to be wearing a rainbow backpack. Me and my mom were waiting in line at a restaurant. My mom called me "my love"(she calls everyone that). This woman suddenly gave my mom a dirty look. I guess she assumed we were a lesbian couple with a huge age difference.
     
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    That happened with me. Little did they know my pal and I in fact hated each other.
     
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    I'm in love with my best friend. We're both out, and since we hang out all the time I know a lot of people have assumed we were together....if only! (Sigh!)
     
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    I actually ended up loving my best friend, who people always asked I we were dating, but we have to now keep it hidden because it shouldn't get to our homophobic parents...
    I also have this guy friend that I came out to about my relationship and that I am bi, and we're really close. He even sometimes holds my hand (in a friendly way) but he has a girlfriend, and we consider each other siblings. When people ask, we're like "ew no that's like incest"