Hello everyone, To make a long story short, I came out as bisexual in middle school and finally came out as lesbian once I was in my 20s. I have struggled a lot with femme invisibility to the point where more obvious lesbians give me dirty looks. I know its probably all in my head but it definitely hits the ego hard. I know my style isnt going to change so i have to know am I an attractive lesbian.
Im a bi guy so I dont know if will count for you but, I think you are just beautiful as you are. no need to be worried about how you look at all.
Don't worry about it, just be yourself! Every gay dude I've ever been with has told me I'm "basically a straight dude" or some variation of that. I don't take it as an insult... Some of us just don't really fit in with most other gay people. But that's okay! What's most important is that you stay true to your own personality, because any lesbian who is worth a damn probably cares more about their partner being genuine than if she meets stereotypes. Smile and be proud of who you are!!!!!
Thank you. I've always had an easy time attracting guys but not gals. Thank you though ---------- Post added 25th May 2015 at 02:50 PM ---------- Thank you army dude
I agree, you're very pretty (and smiling!). Your eyes look stunning in that second picture. I'm sorry you're not having great experiences with the lesbians you've met so far, but surely they can only be a small portion of the actual community. There are many femme lesbians out there, and a lot of women who love them.
You look fine. I really like the color of your eyes, too. Beautiful shade of color, they are. I don't want to be a buzz kill here, and I may be wrong, but aren't posting images of yourself, outside of the approved profile album, discouraged/against the rules?
I'm not sure. I just had a bad day and some bad luck and I didn't even know toys place existed but I'm glad I found it. I am sorry if I broke a rule.
Yay. Well, I'm looking for new friends. I love people from all walks of life and I enjoy music, vaping, working out, gardening, and I work really long hours but I'm very good at my job and I have off every weekend.
I feel that way as well. I hate that no one ever believes me when I try to come out. It just kills me when people try to make me straight.
If you're a lesbian, you're a lesbian. It doesn't matter if you look "girly" so own it and you look just fine to me. These "obvious" girls are just giving you grief but don't mind them because it's only a matter of time before you find the right girl or group of friends who aren't going to care if you fit the stereotype or not so don't get yourself down over this.