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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by slipperyman, Dec 5, 2008.

  1. slipperyman

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    Here's a story that happened just yesterday that has been a truly important step in my life. Uh so I was at my friends house and there was a cheap porno on and we all were watching it and the majority of the time there was nothing but naked women and all of my friends were all excited about it but I wasn't. So obviousley I faked loving the naked women but when a man came in I actually got excited. The guy had a nice body and tattoos, which was really hot! So at this point in my life I haven't decided what my sexuality is. But after this suitation, I think that I have come to the conclusion that I am gay! God it feels so great to finally have a decision that I know only I can make, and it being what I truly think and feel. With this in mind I now have to decide who I am going to tell. There is this really kewl guy at my school who has a gay friend. He hasn't told me who his gay friend is so after I tell him I guess that he will tell me. So anyway thx for reading this if you have and for those who haven't decided who you truly are. I have and I hope that you will. Give me hope and strength in this hard time.
     
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    Congrats on figuring out who you are, it's a big step towards being comfortable with yourself and it feels great. Good luck for when you decide to come out, and remember that coming out is best on your own time. :slight_smile:
     
  3. tomahto72

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    Fab work on figuring out who you are. The best thing you can do is accept. Doesn't it feel good just to write it or say it?
    Well DOne and good luck coming out don't rush yourself. Come out when the time is right and when you feel ready!
    (*hug*)
     
  4. MacAlex

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    Welcome to our exclusive club! Pick up your membership card at the door :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    But seriously, congrats! That's a really tough thing you did-coming to terms with my sexuality took me almost 8 years... Pick and choose who you tell wisely. More people are OK with it than you think, but you don't want to make a mistake...
    Good luck!!
     
  5. george678

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    Congrats it is good to know who you are.
     
  6. J Schuelke

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    Awesome!!!!! It's funny how some things take forever, and then somes things just hit us. Good thing your realization smacked you in the face!! Just don't go anouncing to the world that you love men, YET. Be patient and come out when you are fully comfortable with yourself and ready.
     
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    It's great that you figured out your sexuality.
     
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    Don't get ahead of yourself you can be gay for just one person
     
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    ...Buh? But in this situation, that makes no sense.

    He wasn't aroused by any of the women, but found himself interested in the men. Pretty simple.
     
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    I'm pretty sure he meant that he doesn't have to rush to come out.
     
  11. Bunny

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    Ah. It just sounded as though he meant that he shouldn't assume he's gay because one guy turned him on. Which is kinda silly.