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Being caught checking out the same sex?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sporn, Jun 8, 2015.

  1. sporn

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    How do people react when they catch you checking out the same sex? Do they think you're checking them out or something else?
     
  2. Tamanofu

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    They check along with me~. people around me appreciates a good looking person when they see one even if its the same sex :slight_smile:
     
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    So I don't often check people out but I think people are less likely to suspect you of doing it if they don't know you're gay/bi. Most straight people would probably just assume you're straight and staring a lot for some reason:slight_smile: As long as you're discreet and don't make faces they probably wouldn't think anything of it.
     
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    I don't think too much of it. A hot girl is a hot girl. :love:
     
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    Since I don't get out much I don't really check people out, the ones I DO check out are for like 2 seconds because I see their face and then they turn away. However, there ARE times when they're standing still and I can look at them as long as I want, my mom and sister don't pay any attention so I don't really have to worry.

    TBH 2 seconds is enough for me, I know I have zero chances with them, I will never see them again, AND they're usually older then me, so it would never work. I would rather focus on who I'm with instead of gawk at guys who I would never be able to get.
     
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    I have a bitchy face, so I think girls assume I'm being stuck up or catty.
     
  7. I was caught staring at my friend's abs and pecs in the locker room because he was trying to put on a shirt while walking towards me.

    He saw me and went "I know, I worked hard for these."
     
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    uuuughhhh i sit next to a guy in my class who is very attractive.....i may look when he picks something up or turns away sometimes....i think i may have been caught once haha another guy in my class gave me a funny look. so ive been way more subtle about it hehe..... not my fault
     
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    If the person whom I'm checking out notices, they'll just ask me why I'm staring and I'll come up with some random response.

    If someone else notices, they'll look too to see what I'm staring at, and then when they don't see anything strange, usually shrug it off.

    One of my friends once noticed me checking out a girl in the hallway at school. He laughed and asked me teasingly what I was staring at. He knew. :lol:
     
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    Oh god, I would die if that happened to me. I was home-schooled since 2nd grade, but just knowing I would have to go into a locker of half-naked sweaty guys :icon_redf
     
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    I wouldn't care if people noticed me checking out women. There are worse ways to get attention.
     
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    People don't notice when I do it this year. But two years ago I got caught checking out one of my friends when he first moved here.
     
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    https://youtu.be/3v98CPXNiSk

    Bitch face is a treatable condition! :lol:
     
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    I do it all the time and no one has ever said anything. I think it's natuarul to look at people when they enter the room of something, just to see who they are or what they're doing. Probably friends just assume I'm doing that.








    It's only when I lick my lips and moan that people get suspicious.
     
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    My friend from college told me he already knew I might be gay when I came out to him because he said he'd catch me glancing at guys sometimes and/or not look at "hot" girls when they passed by.

    I try to be as inconspicuous as possible, though.
     
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    Hot guys are in abundance so I am obliged to look every once in a while.
     
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    That's just how [real name here] is. It's cool.

    To a stranger I'm assumed to be heterosexual, and that's fine. If I like a stranger, then they'll know eventually. But to anybody that knows me just a little, they treat my possibly liking somebody as infrequent. Basically, when I look at somebody, they believe it's to study or analyze them -- not that I could find them appealing.

    I assumed to be a monk, LOL.

    Sometimes folks will ask me my opinion on somebody, if I'm looking at them. So, in this regard, I'm fairly fortunate.

    Mostly something else, as said previously. It makes conversations happen easier, as most folks that know me just a little, will ask for my perspective on things or themselves. Most of the time, it's about others, but I digress.

    I suppose it could be worse, this situation.
     
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    They didn't notice it or they didn't care
    No one ever told me anything when i'm checking out a guy
     
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    I've never been told I was checking someone out. I've been caught many many times by the person I was checking out however. It can be a bit awkward but mostly I just want them to talk to me, but it never happens.
     
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    I rarely check out girls but when I do it goes unnoticed because people assume I'm looking at her outfit (which is often true) and sunglasses are everything!