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Did I handle it well?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Emmanuella, Jun 9, 2015.

  1. Emmanuella

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    So today I was a substitute teacher in a kindergarten class. The teacher left some fathers day cards for the kids to make.

    There was one little boy who came from a family of two moms (how cool is that!?!?) Anyway, when the boy asked me who to address I told him he can address the father's day card to his 2 mom's, and that they are happy/lucky that they get to receive cards for both mother's day and father's day.

    The little boy seemed satisfied/excited with my suggestion, so I hope it won't offend his moms to receive a father's day card.

    Are there any current same-sex parents here? Opinions? Would you have preferred the card be addressed to a grandpa or uncle!?

    I was trying to think of how I would feel as a (hopefully) future LGBT parent. I honestly don't think I'd care at all either way, but some people cate about these little things... thoughts?
     
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    Well, I wasn't raised by two mothers, but my father was never around, and on father's day, I sent my grandfather a card instead. I can't imagine they will be offended though.
     
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    I think you did well, so you deserve an applause. :slight_smile:

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    That's really sweet! I wouldn't find it offensive if I was in that situation. As a possible future LGBT parent (I know, waaaay ahead into the future, but still) I'd think it's an adorable gesture and love what my child gives me
     
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    Of course they're not gonna be offended, that's a nice gesture and I'm sure they will love anything their son makes them. You did a good job making him not feel alienated, and making the assignment relatable to him.
     
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    It should be fine. Although not a parent myself, I can't see his moms getting upset about it. It's really the thought that counts and I'm sure they'll appreciate it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Ok...I just tend to over thunk things. In any case, chances are I might not be with that same class again after father's day anyhow!

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