Sexual Orientation

I'm a 4 right now, but I seem to be shifting down the scale the more comfortable I get with myself, hehe ^^ I've even started wondering if I might actually be gay, and not bi.

 

I'm gonna go with 5. Certain girls(Pink) I do find attractive and even hot(Pink). Like Pink for example

 

I chose 6 (totally homosexual), although I'm not completely satisfied with my answer. This will be hard to explain and possibly be confusing.

There's a traditional look that people find attractive. You know how most heterosexual guys would probably agree that one specific woman is the most attractive in a group? That's what I mean.

On the other hand, there's a personal preference of what people find attractive because attraction never has a wrong answer. This personal preference can go against that traditional look explained above.

In women I have always been unable to understand that traditional look. When anybody asks me if I find a girl attractive, I don't know what to say. I try and try to understand that traditional look (in women), but I've never been able to see it.

However, sometimes I non-sexually admire a woman's appearance, but I think this always correlates with her pose, grace, dress, accessories, etc. In other words, this is my personal preference that I am not sexually attracted to, but I find appealing to view. I suppose it's like a painting.

Note: I easily know when a guy has the traditional look of being attractive, and I also know when I find a guy sexually attractive who doesn't match that traditional look.

Does all that make sense?

 

That makes sense to me

 

makes sense to me ^^ for me, it's the opposite, which is why it's tricky to explore my homosexual side.

 

I chose 4. Most of my life I wanted to believe and lived and acted a 1 or at least 2. Only in the last few years have I really acknowledged being Bi (3). These days I find women less attractive sexually and men more attractive, So I'm going for 4. If I get to a 5 then our marriage is definitely in trouble. in my 40 years of sexual life, I've quite enjoyed sex with either gender. My first years of marriage were full on hetro-sexual in activity. (Straight at last I thought!) Now, I'm not attracted to my wife sexually and I choose not to act on my male attractions and desires. Wow! that's all for now. Perhaps more later at another time. Paul

 

I'm probably much the same as Aussie Paul above.

I'm not married - but I find that, over the years, I have really shifted pretty much from a 3 to a 4...may even be edging from 4 to 5 now...I dunno...

 

I'm gay but I can appreciate the beauty and attraction of a woman.

 

I wanted to vote 4.5 but obviously there is no decimal...I voted 4.

 

I'm a 6 - 100% gay. I cannot remember ever having any sort of attraction to the opposite sex.

 

My guess would be beckyg, our resident supportive parent.

 

That makes total sense. However, I suspect most gay guys can pretty accurately peg a "traditionally beautiful woman" just because we get raised as straight and there's so much emphasis on female beauty in our culture. Like I can totally accurately identify a knock-out of either gender. That doesn't mean I get at all week in the knees over the hot women, however.

 

I am a 5... although I would never actually do anything with a women, I do find some attractive.

 

Swimmerboy said it better than I could, I'm a 5.

 

No. 6.

If a girl flashed her boobs at me I wouldn't budge.

 

im still really not sure but do like guys better

 

I counted myself as a 6...

 

I'd say a 4.5 too. I look at guys and girls, but i only want to be with a girl. I can see myself with a guy (it's he's emo and hot or just extremely hot), but i doubt i could ever feel 'real' in a relationship with one. I just feel 'right' being in a relationship with a girl.:icon_roll :eusa_thin

And being bi for me just seems to be confused. I just want to be one or the other and i know i'm not striaght.