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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BeautifulStranger, Dec 11, 2008.

  1. BeautifulStranger

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    (I hope this is in the right forum... I'm not asking for advice or anything)

    Mike and I are through.
    We made it 9 months... and it took me 9 months to see that no matter how much changing I did for him, he would never change for me.

    I thought I'd feel stupid for saying all of those things about being with him for the rest of my life. But I don't.
    Because I love him. I'm in love with him. I would spend my life with him.
    It's him who doesn't love me... Well, I know he loves me. He's just not in love with me.

    I'd say I'm handling this rather well.
     
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  2. Dazed

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    aw thats sweet you would spend forever with someone.
    i cant anything last more then 2 weeks.

    and you do see to be handling it well.
     
  3. BeautifulStranger

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    I don't see the point in getting emotional.
    We're not over because I cheated or he cheated. We're over because of something beyond our power. I can't change his feelings to match mine.

    I mean yeah, of course it hurts.
    But I've had plenty of time to get used to this. I knew it would happen sooner or later.
     
  4. Dazed

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    i agree that getting overly emotional is pointless.
    i wish you could explain that to my ex.
    i told him i might be only into girls and needed space and he got all upset like it was something i controled.
    he also seems to think he has it in his power to change me.
    >_<
     
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    (*hug*)

    God for you, love. You know what's best for both of you and you are doing exactly that.
     
  6. Miaplacidus

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    *hugs tightly* You'll get over it. You deserve better than that - from what I've seen you're a good guy.
     
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    ^ A very good guy. ^

    And, yes, you do deserve better.
     
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    I'm sorry. Break ups are hard. Good thing you handle it better than I would.

    But if you do feel the need to gorge on chocolate I can tell you make sure you chew enough times!
     
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    Bugga...Oh well, things like this happen (as you seem to have wisely realised :slight_smile: ). I hope you find that someone whose feelings do match yours :slight_smile: