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11th Dec 2008, 02:53 PM
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| GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member  Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007 |  Just so you know (I hope this is in the right forum... I'm not asking for advice or anything) Mike and I are through. We made it 9 months... and it took me 9 months to see that no matter how much changing I did for him, he would never change for me. I thought I'd feel stupid for saying all of those things about being with him for the rest of my life. But I don't. Because I love him. I'm in love with him. I would spend my life with him. It's him who doesn't love me... Well, I know he loves me. He's just not in love with me. I'd say I'm handling this rather well.
__________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void." Last edited by BeautifulStranger; 11th Dec 2008 at 03:01 PM.. |
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11th Dec 2008, 03:08 PM
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| Banned  Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007 | Re: Just so you know aw thats sweet you would spend forever with someone. i cant anything last more then 2 weeks. and you do see to be handling it well. |
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11th Dec 2008, 03:11 PM
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| GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007 | Re: Just so you know Quote:
We're not over because I cheated or he cheated. We're over because of something beyond our power. I can't change his feelings to match mine. I mean yeah, of course it hurts. But I've had plenty of time to get used to this. I knew it would happen sooner or later.
__________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void." | |
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11th Dec 2008, 03:56 PM
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| Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007 | Re: Just so you know i agree that getting overly emotional is pointless. i wish you could explain that to my ex. i told him i might be only into girls and needed space and he got all upset like it was something i controled. he also seems to think he has it in his power to change me. >_< |
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11th Dec 2008, 03:59 PM
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| DFTBA Full Member   Gender: Somewhere between female and I don't know Out Status: Open, not out. Location: Northern California, United States Age: 18 Posts: 2,380 Join Date: Jul 2008 | Re: Just so you know  God for you, love. You know what's best for both of you and you are doing exactly that.
__________________ "The opposite of love is not hate, but fear" Forrest Church |
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11th Dec 2008, 04:10 PM
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| Cheshire Cat Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gayer than not Out Status: Everyone who asks Location: Atlantida, Uruguay Age: 22 Posts: 5,093 Join Date: Feb 2007 | Re: Just so you know *hugs tightly* You'll get over it. You deserve better than that - from what I've seen you're a good guy.
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11th Dec 2008, 04:14 PM
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| DFTBA Full Member Gender: Somewhere between female and I don't know Out Status: Open, not out. Location: Northern California, United States Age: 18 Posts: 2,380 Join Date: Jul 2008 | Re: Just so you know ^ A very good guy. ^ And, yes, you do deserve better.
__________________ "The opposite of love is not hate, but fear" Forrest Church |
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11th Dec 2008, 04:52 PM
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| the great cheese danish Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Buffalo, NY Age: 21 Posts: 2,874 Join Date: Jun 2008 | Re: Just so you know I'm sorry. Break ups are hard. Good thing you handle it better than I would. But if you do feel the need to gorge on chocolate I can tell you make sure you chew enough times!
__________________ "Nobody can teach me who I am, who can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need, these are things I have to find out myself." - Chunua Achebe |
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13th Dec 2008, 12:49 AM
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| Aspiring RENThead Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006 | Re: Just so you know Bugga...Oh well, things like this happen (as you seem to have wisely realised  ). I hope you find that someone whose feelings do match yours
__________________ The Joker Rules all....   TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it. |
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