(I hope this is in the right forum... I'm not asking for advice or anything) Mike and I are through. We made it 9 months... and it took me 9 months to see that no matter how much changing I did for him, he would never change for me. I thought I'd feel stupid for saying all of those things about being with him for the rest of my life. But I don't. Because I love him. I'm in love with him. I would spend my life with him. It's him who doesn't love me... Well, I know he loves me. He's just not in love with me. I'd say I'm handling this rather well.
aw thats sweet you would spend forever with someone. i cant anything last more then 2 weeks. and you do see to be handling it well.
I don't see the point in getting emotional. We're not over because I cheated or he cheated. We're over because of something beyond our power. I can't change his feelings to match mine. I mean yeah, of course it hurts. But I've had plenty of time to get used to this. I knew it would happen sooner or later.
i agree that getting overly emotional is pointless. i wish you could explain that to my ex. i told him i might be only into girls and needed space and he got all upset like it was something i controled. he also seems to think he has it in his power to change me. >_<
*hugs tightly* You'll get over it. You deserve better than that - from what I've seen you're a good guy.
I'm sorry. Break ups are hard. Good thing you handle it better than I would. But if you do feel the need to gorge on chocolate I can tell you make sure you chew enough times!
Bugga...Oh well, things like this happen (as you seem to have wisely realised ). I hope you find that someone whose feelings do match yours