Straight guys flirting with gay guys

[summersforecast]

I don't know why but for some reason Straight highschool boys think that its funny to flirt with gay guys. Its really insulting if you've ever had it happen to you. I mean soem people can make light of this but honestly i can't! Last year some football players decided at lunch that it would be funny for them to flirt with me. They sat across the lunchroom making kissy faces until I fliped them the bird. What do you think of this behavior?

[TheRoof]

do they know ur gay?

[summersforecast]

Originally Posted by JRNY

do they know ur gay?

Its not hard to guess because im timid by nature and I hang out with a ton of girls but very few guys.
It's odd ya know those jocks can see it but my closest friends and family can't

[Peter]

Guys are heartless people generally. Shame they look good or we could ignore them!

[Steve]

Originally Posted by peter

guys Are Heartless People Generally. Shame They Look Good Or We Could Ignore Them!

Omgs Lol

[summersforecast]

yea too bad the taste of the forbiden fruit always leaves you wanting more, oh the forbidden straight guy lol jk (no but really they are hot!)

[Mickey]

They're just immature. They think they're being funny. Boys are like pack animals,if they have others around,they tend to work together to attack those who are weaker.
I wouldn't worry about it. You could always tell them that you prefer people with brains!

[summersforecast]

Originally Posted by Mickey

They're just immature. They think they're being funny. Boys are like pack animals,if they have others around,they tend to work together to attack those who are weaker.
I wouldn't worry about it. You could always tell them that you prefer people with brains!

lol people with brains... how did you know I'm a nerd?(High honor role 1st semester) *rotflol*

Used to happen to me all the time in hs...people are idiots. However, dont let this make you feel bad....do it back to them, because it will freak them out....flipping them off only makes them know you dislike it and thus will do it over and over again.

[summersforecast]

Originally Posted by BitterEdge

Used to happen to me all the time in hs...people are idiots. However, dont let this make you feel bad....do it back to them, because it will freak them out....flipping them off only makes them know you dislike it and thus will do it over and over again.

thanks and trust em when I say I would really take your advice but I still in the closet I know I'm so lame... just not ready yet

[Meropspusillus]

Originally Posted by trying2behappy

I don't know why but for some reason Straight highschool boys think that its funny to flirt with gay guys. Its really insulting if you've ever had it happen to you. I mean soem people can make light of this but honestly i can't! Last year some football players decided at lunch that it would be funny for them to flirt with me. They sat across the lunchroom making kissy faces until I fliped them the bird. What do you think of this behavior?

That's not flirting, that's mocking.

[Steve]

if you ask me
they dont know your gay but suspect it .. and they want to see your reaction?
getting upset is falling into their trap .. wink and them and blow them a kiss will get them off your ass, or beaten up lols

[summersforecast]

Originally Posted by Steve

if you ask me
they dont know your gay but suspect it .. and they want to see your reaction?
getting upset is falling into their trap .. wink and them and blow them a kiss will get them off your ass, or beaten up lols

Blowing them a kiss would be like comming out... I'm a good lier but not that good

If you don't want to go as far as blowing a kiss (sarcastically) try giving them an exaggerated wink and thumbs up.
Chances are that they won't even think about it much. I did it massively when I was at school (but how could you not at an all boys school), it even got so far as physical touching, nipple arousal etc. but no one seemed to take notice of that anyway because it was considered normal by my peers (seriously everyone except the true homophobes did it)

[summersforecast]

Originally Posted by tomahto72

If you don't want to go as far as blowing a kiss (sarcastically) try giving them an exaggerated wink and thumbs up.
Chances are that they won't even think about it much. I did it massively when I was at school (but how could you not at an all boys school), it even got so far as physical touching, nipple arousal etc. but no one seemed to take notice of that anyway because it was considered normal by my peers (seriously everyone except the true homophobes did it)

was that supposed to make me feel better?

[Steve]

man if you wink back at them they will think your playing there game back
by getting moddy and upset .. shows them that they have touched a sore /weak part

[Jace]

Originally Posted by Felismargarita

That's not flirting, that's mocking.

yeah thats what i was gonna say

what they're doing is not flirting

i used 2 get this alot 2 but only after i'd come out, they stopped after a just leant across the table and kissed one of em tho lol.

Try not to get too anoyed by it tho, it's hard cos its really irritating but that'll make them do it more

[Brandford]

Ive had this happen to me, my friend who knew i was gayish bi loved to touch me on the bus, he would stroke my legs, my arms and stick his hand in my crotch and when i fought him off he kept saying "your bi so this should bother you", it was so annoying but eventually he stopped

[TheRoof]

Originally Posted by Mickey

They're just immature. They think they're being funny. Boys are like pack animals,if they have others around,they tend to work together to attack those who are weaker.
I wouldn't worry about it. You could always tell them that you prefer people with brains!

that's how i feel about most guys.
i find girls much more compatible like in terms of
personalities and stuff cuz they are more
mature and understading...
wish i would meet a guy like that someday...