Hey everyone! So, as you can probably tell, I'm gay. c: Only my friends know. I'm the only gay boy that I know - that's my age. I've had many crushes on straight guys, and I'm getting pretty lonely. What should I do? My family doesn't know. I want a real boyfriend, someone I can see irl, that's my age. Etc. Any advice? Thanks! ~~ Cheers.
join a local gay and lesbian support group maybe uni has one maybe some bars have student nights for gay people, you need to get out enjoy yourself make some more friends .
I agree with the person above you need to get out and do things but also just be yourself and don't push things to happen let it come natural it's hard to wait I know this because it took me a few years even after I came out to find a guy and even after a few months I'm back to looking again because he wasn't right for me and that's another thing when it dose happen don't force yourself to make it work. So yea that all I got to say about that.
I'm only 14 though, I can't go to a bar xDD and my parents don't know I'm gay, so I can't go to a support group, without them figuring out. :eusa_doh:
I know how you feel. Even though I'm bi, I have a stronger preference for guys, so I'd prefer a boyfriend. My problem is that I don't know any guys my age who are gay or bi where I live. :/
I'm also stuck in the same sort of rut. My last and only relationship ended a few years ago and I haven't been able to find anyone new that I like that hasn't already been taken. Love takes time, alot of time and you need to be ready to deal with breakups and all the hard feelings that come with being together with some one. I sure wasn't ready, I wish I could take a mulligan on my last relationship, but I can't. Once your of age, online dating can work but I would tend to the side of causion. I can feel what your going through.(*hug*)
