Hey everyone. so I have a crush on one of my straight best friends. He really is just an awesome guy. One of the nicest people you'll ever meet. He's also incredibly smart and really really sexy. An awesome body (best ass you've ever seen). Sometimes when were watching a movie or something I'll rest my head on his lap or if we sleep in the same bed I'll snuggle up next to him and he doesn t really mind at all. Although I'm not officially out to him I think he knows I'm gay. He notices when I check him out but doesn't sah anything just kinda give me this "I saw what you were just doing " smile. Unfortunately he's straight. He has a girlfriend that he hooks up with all the time. So I was wondering if anyone else has been in my position? How did you get over him? Cause I'm really sick of crushing on a straight guy. I just want somebody who'll like me back:help: what would you do in this situation?
If he hasn't definitively expressed that he's straight, there is hope. Does he just hook up with the girl or are they a thing? That bit of info will help you.
Maybe stop doing physically gay things with him. Like resting your head on his lap, and cuddling with him for starters. and then start attention seeking for your gay habits else where. You need to re-focus your attention on someone else. I would also tell him you are gay if he isn't a homophobe. If he is, then just drop him as a friend
I think almost every gay person has had a crush on a straight person of the same sex, myself included.
Have you asked him how he feels about you? It doesn't seem like he's really disliking anything you're doing... Plus, if he's only just hooked up with a girl a few times - then maybe you could try to see what he thinks.
I had a crush on a guy in my class, the first time i saw him nude in gym class. I masturbate while thinking about him. I never got over him, i still stare and fantasise in my head. :icon_redf
When I think back to my teenage years, I realize now of the guys I had crushes on, only didn't realize it. Didn't have many friends, but when my friend Rob hung out of me, my heart leapt and when he was away on dates with one of his girlfriends, I would get so depressed. At the time I thought this is what having friends was like. Now, with age comes wisdom and I know now that I had it so bad for him... ...sigh...
I don't think I've ever had a crush on anybody, ever. What are the symptoms of such? If I know that someone is straight, then I cease being capable of feeling any attraction toward them. They essentially become equivalent to a female as far as my libido is concerned. Todd
