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Im Bisexual Is it "OK" ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by yurilove, Jul 8, 2015.

  1. yurilove

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    hi my name is yuri im 13 and a know im bisexual and im asking the LGBT when should i come out ?:icon_sad::icon_sad::icon_sad::icon_sad:
     
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    I see no need to "come out". I see a strong need for people to BE out. If someone asks if you like guys, say yeah (if you're comfortable saying that). If someone asks if you like girls, say yeah (if you're comfortable saying that). Live your life and experience what the Universe puts in your path...experience it fully, and reflect on those experiences. It doesn't have to be any more complicated than that.

    But as consolation: you can make it as complicated as you want/need.
     
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    Thank you so much i feel so much better now
     
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    Hello yurilove and welcome to EC!
    If you're asking about coming out, you're probably in the wrong section, but I'll help you out anyways. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. It's ok to be yourself, especially on this site. As for coming out, it depends on your parents' religious and political views. If they are extremely right wing, you may want to hold off or at least bring up the topic carefully. No matter your parents,, you must be brave and gather your courage if you want to come
    out. It's something we all go through, and although it's difficult, it's often worthwhile in the long term.
    Good luck, and if you need anything else, feel free to ask. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you guys and girls women men everyone here is super nice i think ive found my home
     
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    There's nothing wrong with you my friend. Come out when you and only YOU feel ready to do it. And also do it when it is safe please. I wish you the best <3
     
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    Oooooh, sweeties :3

    I hope you feel welcome and at home here. We have a lot of multisexuals around. ^_^ (*hug*)

    I went to school in Victoria, BC. Small world, I feel like.

    ~ Adrienne
     
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    Welcome!

    I have Bi and Pan daughters. There is nothing wrong with you and Bi is perfectly ok!

    You don't need to come out, my youngest is now 16, but she only told a close friend at 13. She decided to tell some others in high school. She is now completely out, but it took time. There is no hurry and you don't owe anyone an explanation of who you are or who you love.
     
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    Yeah it's OK :grin:
     
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    Hey Yuri! Welcome to BC!

    It is totally ok to be bisexual. Love is love, there is nothing with you.

    Welcome to the team :wink:
     
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    Hey! Welcome to Empty Closets!

    It's totally and 100% fine to be bisexual. You should only come out when you personally feel fully comfortable. You're amazing, remember that.
     
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    When you should come out depends on your circumstances.