When you're "checking someone out" what r u MENTALLY doing 2 them?

Nothing really. I haven't seen someone who's my type of gal and worth checking out and if I did, I'd be doing all kinds of things with her in my mind. I'd probably be that one weirdo who's just staring at someone and making them uncomfortable while just daydreaming about all the things I can do to them.

 

Non-sexual for me, cuddling and kissing works : P
It's very rare I feel sexual toward a complete stranger

 

'Terminator mode', is the easiest way to describe it:

Basically, I look at somebody in general, unless they give me a reason to look elsewhere. I tend to focus on mannerisms, how somebody walks, where their eyes go, and all sorts of little cues on how they are feeling, either about that day or moment in particular, or about themselves.

Once that is all said and done, if I like you like that, it can be a variety of things. Rarely pure sexual activity, mostly spending time doing something, like leaning on a bridge or maybe cuddling.​

 

I'm usually thinking about how great her cuteness is, wishing I could run up to her and tell her how cute she is over and over again while cuddling onto her. :lol:

If this makes any sense, I'm not usually imagining something totally sexual, but seeing her in a fairly sexual way, I guess.

 

I usually don't think of people sexually even if it looks like I am. Maybe my subconscious mind is thinking of sexual stuff. I just don't feel like it's appropriate to sexually think of strangers.

 

Something very sexual :lol: not going into details

 

Sexual an non-sexual, one must look at the entire package (both sexually and non-sexually). c: The problem is, despite all of this "checking out" I can never seem to figure out whether or not he's gay.

 

Most of the time, sexual, although it depends on the appearance.

 

The opening credits for any given james bond film :lol:


ps. There are surprisingly few gifs of these parts of the movies. Get to it, internet. The Live and Let Die opening is great

 

I just like to look

 

I don't really daydream about random people when I'm checking them out. I just look at them? Don't think about sexual stuff usually I guess.

 

Sure, it's sexual for me. Certain people pique my interest for their pleasing appearance. And I have to stop and look at them, from head to toe. And then lament the fact that that person is probably straight and I will enter another year of being a partner-less wonder.

 

As I'm checking someone out I'm usually thinking - Well, if you came to me and wanted to kiss me, I wouldn't stop you... so... whatchu waiting for? Oh, come on, let's make out. Now!

Something like that.

 

wow the variety of responses is amazing! I feel like most people are more sexual than me in attractions. For me 'checking out' usually just means looking at people who catch my eye in some way- some will be sexual, and some absolutely not, and generally my mind will wonder to the sexual territory extremely rarely- almost never.

It has made it rather difficult figuring out my sexuality, because there is very little difference in how I notice people because I am attracted *to them*, or because I simply find their style/form interesting/intriguing to look at.

 

Hmm. I guess, umm, I go like "damn". Usually checking out guys is easier cause I don't get jealous :rolle:

Sometimes my mind drifts off into the lucious dimensions of pleasure. But I very rarely look at someone that intently ^^

Yuri's cryptic response is my closest answer. lol

 

Undressing them with my eyes. LOL.