What do you think of people who say they like virgin girls? It kind of rubs me the wrong way because I don't believe virgin girls look any different. I don't even believe in the concept of virginity. I think what they mean by virgin girls are innocent looking girls. I've never had sex, but I'm not sure I'm that innocent looking.
I think this more stems from a control/dominance stance more than anything. By deflowering a virgin, they are doing something no one else has done or can take back.
I think it's because they want to take someone's virginity? They want to be that person's first? Or, they want to be the more sexually experienced one That's all I can think of
I'm only fine with this statement if someone is equally inexperienced and wants to share that, because that can be kind of cute. However, most of the time this is said in a creepy gross way by men who want to exert some sort of power over women because they see virginity as a permanent staining thing... Also, it's usually VERY heterosexist/homophobic because a lot of these people would still classify sexually active lesbians as 'virgins' and want to be their 'true first cause women don't count'. Gross!!!!
I guess it's 'cause she might not have the experience and didn't have anything stick inside her so she's clean and the thought of putting your pee pee where someone else put their pee pee in is not guaranteeing to be safe. I guess, if the person just wants sex. Or maybe, it lets the person know that the girl isn't ready to jump headfirst into something so serious and they're not sluts who're only going with them for the sex. I dunno, my guesses.
This covers the tip of it. Bad pun. A lot of folks enjoy the idea of a virgin, male or female, because in their minds, they can mold this person. There really isn't anybody else to compare to, and it allows them to safeguard their confidence. After all, if you've only been with Person A, how do you know how good/bad you truly have it? A fellow I see every other month has a virgin fetish. And yes, I call it a fetish because more than half the women he has dated are virgins. He's a jealous and insecure man, despite what he'll tell you. But the way he acts when his partners are out with friends or talking to classmates, betrays him. He rarely approaches an experienced or confident woman, especially if she is comfortable with herself sexually. Aside from the safety aspect, somebody being a virgin doesn't really have more or less of an advantage than somebody experienced. To me, at least. People are people, they can learn and adapt. And besides, if you've had sex with 6 people and all of them are terrible, you probably won't be great. My two cents.
