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How can I meet bi or gay girls?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by fxngirl, Jul 21, 2015.

  1. fxngirl

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    Almost none of the people around me are LGBT, so I'm very depressed because I don't know how to meet girls. Any suggestions? I'm afraid to try with dating apps and stuff because of catfishing.
     
  2. Charlotte Rose

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    I've been having a similar problem. I want to meet other girls but I'm not into clubs and so don't know where to meet anyone.
     
  3. flitterpad

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    Well as I'm 14 and I'm still questioning and used to be straight, I do not have much experience in this topic. At all.
    But I can still think of some ideas of advice :slight_smile:
    Are there any gay bars where you live? LGBTQ festivals?What about LGBTQ groups? Even if you join regular groups maybe there will be a few gay/bisexual girls in there?
    I found this link online:
    How to Make Gay Friends and Meet Girls: The Ultimate Guide to Effective Queer Socializing | Autostraddle

    and this one:

    How to Meet Other Lesbians - 6 Easy Steps (with Pictures)

    :thumbsup:Good luck! There are probably plenty of people out there and you just haven't found them yet.
     
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    In my decades of meeting and dating like-minded people, I've always found them in organized events and groups -- conferences, social groups, support groups, book clubs, academic groups (I was a women's studies minor), etc. Not necessarily all-LGBTQ, just with a higher than average percentage of us. I started dating men when I became interested in the BDSM lifestyle because there were too few women, and the same thing worked. I met my current partner 15 years ago at a fundraiser for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
     
  5. fxngirl

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    Thanks a lot!