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20th Dec 2008, 01:44 AM

does anyone have a group of people who act gay in school, but are really straight?
a group here does it regularly >.>
they even try to include me by hitting my butt and air-humping behind me.
they don't know I'm gay, but it happens regularly here >.>
anyone else have gay-acting straights in their school?

waitingsucks · 20th Dec 2008, 02:31 AM

Yes, heaps of them. But I wouldn't know how 'straight' these people are. I think it is a sort of overcompensation for the people who do it non-stop.

Ty · 20th Dec 2008, 04:23 AM

I've never witnessed that phenomenon before. Surely they're just either metrosexual or repressed?

20th Dec 2008, 04:30 AM

no, they do it purely for fun. it's really annoying to me >.>

TheRoof · 20th Dec 2008, 05:33 AM

um yea that happens in my school too lol.
that air-humping thing annoys me and makes me laugh at the same time lol

george678 · 20th Dec 2008, 05:35 AM

No dont seem to.

JCal · 20th Dec 2008, 06:20 AM

Yeah I know what you mean, i've came up with two groups of 'straight' guys who do this.

Immature straight guys who are comfortable with their sexuality, and think its funny to pretend to be gay.
And
Deeply closeted gay guys who have to act out some of their sexual interests as jokes so they don't go completely crazy by holding them in.

=]

jazzrawr · 20th Dec 2008, 06:24 AM

Oh yeah, like...most of my friends. XD
We all flirt all the time for fun, grabbing butts and making sexual comments.
It's quite funny, actually.

sexyalex · 20th Dec 2008, 08:33 AM

lmao! like I think thats at every school. Honestly,
Here its a bit different. They kiss and swap spit and food and all sorts of shit plus Jamaica is the most homophobic place on earth....
what PISSES me off is that when they do shit people see it as just fun and mockry and nothing is wrong with it. But I just go about my day being me and they slander me with names like "battyman, fish, queer, faggat!" and I have never done those unscrupulous things they do in the middle of the cafateria at lunch time. AGH!

Because of them I start eating lunch outside on the lawn. I hate going into the canteen. They think because they are football players and athletic jocks they can do shit and get away with it. Idk about this whole "straight and doing it for fun" thing. I think they r undercover homos and REALLY and I mean REALLY enjoy it...

And I bet if I had join the football team and the tracks team I would be way better athlete than all of them could ever be. Nonetheless, swimming and cheerleading is just my thing and I am not influenced by peer pressure so I could care less.

rosiejuly3 · 20th Dec 2008, 12:22 PM

Oh yes my school has lots and it annoys the hell outta me.

RaRa · 20th Dec 2008, 12:30 PM

Don't even get me started at my school.

It happens every single day. I don't usually mind it cause it's fun, but yesterday one of my straight friends kissed me. I should've socked him for that but hes cute.

Sugar · 20th Dec 2008, 01:28 PM

The song ``You`re so gay`` by Katy Perry represents 80% of the guys in my college lol.

**Lexington** · 20th Dec 2008, 03:53 PM

They always seem ready to state they can do this because they're "secure in their sexuality"...which makes me wonder how secure they really are if they keep telling people that.

Lex

James2612 · 20th Dec 2008, 04:44 PM

Yeah guys when i was in school used to do this a lot!!
Even in the locker room while they was half naked or in the shower!!! Good to watch, but couldnt join in as certain body parts would have given a away "My big secret!"

Greggers · 20th Dec 2008, 06:47 PM

I have two guys like that i know, i cant understand them. They are very strange to be around sometimes. I think they are just confident in there sexuality i guess, cause they both act it. Odd thing is they sleep "together" (in the same room) now and both have GF's they bang like what seems 24/7. Some people are just weird hehe.

Derek the Wolf · 20th Dec 2008, 06:50 PM

There's 1 guy in my school who acts totally femme, but says he's straight. I dunno, doesn't really bother me. Let him act as he likes, that's his prerogative.
Don't let it get to you hun.

George · 20th Dec 2008, 09:36 PM

There's a few guys at my school who are extremely feminine and 'straight'. And there's also heaps of guys who are definitely straight but sometimes act gay in jest.

Nixon · 20th Dec 2008, 11:59 PM

ya air humping during homecoming is a standard fixture

Bunny · 21st Dec 2008, 01:30 AM

Yeah, I know a group of guys who do the same stuff, like it's a running gag. But around here? Odds are they really are gay. This school is just full of closet cases. xD

...And then of course, there are the girls who pretend to be bisexual to impress guys...

**Gerry** · 21st Dec 2008, 01:36 AM

When I was in high school there were individuals that acted like that. It was very annoying. Especially in gym. I just used to think of one word -- immature.

20th Dec 2008, 01:44 AM	#1
SeanR Guest Posts: n/a	gay-acting straights in school does anyone have a group of people who act gay in school, but are really straight? a group here does it regularly >.> they even try to include me by hitting my butt and air-humping behind me. they don't know I'm gay, but it happens regularly here >.> anyone else have gay-acting straights in their school?

20th Dec 2008, 02:31 AM	#2
waitingsucks Rainbow Philosopher Full Member Gender: XY Orientation: Guylove (between 2 guys) Out Status: 3 people. Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: gay-acting straights in school Yes, heaps of them. But I wouldn't know how 'straight' these people are. I think it is a sort of overcompensation for the people who do it non-stop. __________________ "Do you think so little of me that if I had a choice, I'd choose to live my life dodging prejudice and discrimination?" What's all this stuff about choice? You are the way you are and no one can tell you contrary to what you know in your heart.

20th Dec 2008, 04:23 AM	#3
Ty Mints ribbed for her pleasure Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oxford, t'South, UK Age: 19 Posts: 305 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school I've never witnessed that phenomenon before. Surely they're just either metrosexual or repressed?

20th Dec 2008, 04:30 AM	#4
SeanR Guest Posts: n/a	Re: gay-acting straights in school no, they do it purely for fun. it's really annoying to me >.>

20th Dec 2008, 05:33 AM	#5
TheRoof True Blue Full Member Gender: genderqueer Orientation: I like who I like. Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,452 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school um yea that happens in my school too lol. that air-humping thing annoys me and makes me laugh at the same time lol __________________ Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. -Diane Arbus-

20th Dec 2008, 05:35 AM	#6
george678 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male ♂ Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: England Posts: 1,071 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school No dont seem to. __________________ George

20th Dec 2008, 06:20 AM	#7
JCal Member Regular Member Gender: I'm a Boy Orientation: ...who likes boys Out Status: A few people Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Yeah I know what you mean, i've came up with two groups of 'straight' guys who do this. Immature straight guys who are comfortable with their sexuality, and think its funny to pretend to be gay. And Deeply closeted gay guys who have to act out some of their sexual interests as jokes so they don't go completely crazy by holding them in. =]

20th Dec 2008, 06:24 AM	#8
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Oh yeah, like...most of my friends. XD We all flirt all the time for fun, grabbing butts and making sexual comments. It's quite funny, actually. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

20th Dec 2008, 08:33 AM	#9
sexyalex Fame Monster copy No.2 Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: attracted to anyone sexy Out Status: only my friends know. Location: Kingston Age: 20 Posts: 1,410 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: gay-acting straights in school lmao! like I think thats at every school. Honestly, Here its a bit different. They kiss and swap spit and food and all sorts of shit plus Jamaica is the most homophobic place on earth.... what PISSES me off is that when they do shit people see it as just fun and mockry and nothing is wrong with it. But I just go about my day being me and they slander me with names like "battyman, fish, queer, faggat!" and I have never done those unscrupulous things they do in the middle of the cafateria at lunch time. AGH! Because of them I start eating lunch outside on the lawn. I hate going into the canteen. They think because they are football players and athletic jocks they can do shit and get away with it. Idk about this whole "straight and doing it for fun" thing. I think they r undercover homos and REALLY and I mean REALLY enjoy it... And I bet if I had join the football team and the tracks team I would be way better athlete than all of them could ever be. Nonetheless, swimming and cheerleading is just my thing and I am not influenced by peer pressure so I could care less. __________________ I know that we are young and I know that you may love me, but I just can't be with you like this anymore. Alejandro.

20th Dec 2008, 12:22 PM	#10
rosiejuly3 Can't she see I love her? Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual but leaning towards girls Out Status: Everyone but extended family Location: Raleigh, North Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 203 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Oh yes my school has lots and it annoys the hell outta me. __________________ The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision. ~Lynn Lavner

20th Dec 2008, 12:30 PM	#11
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Don't even get me started at my school. It happens every single day. I don't usually mind it cause it's fun, but yesterday one of my straight friends kissed me. I should've socked him for that but hes cute. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

20th Dec 2008, 01:28 PM	#12
Sugar EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Open-Minded Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Montreal Age: 24 Posts: 325 Join Date: May 2007	Re: gay-acting straights in school The song ``You`re so gay`` by Katy Perry represents 80% of the guys in my college lol. __________________ Grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

20th Dec 2008, 03:53 PM	#13
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: gay-acting straights in school They always seem ready to state they can do this because they're "secure in their sexuality"...which makes me wonder how secure they really are if they keep telling people that. Lex

20th Dec 2008, 04:44 PM	#14
James2612 Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Rainham, near london! Age: 29 Posts: 128 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Yeah guys when i was in school used to do this a lot!! Even in the locker room while they was half naked or in the shower!!! Good to watch, but couldnt join in as certain body parts would have given a away "My big secret!"

20th Dec 2008, 06:47 PM	#15
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school I have two guys like that i know, i cant understand them. They are very strange to be around sometimes. I think they are just confident in there sexuality i guess, cause they both act it. Odd thing is they sleep "together" (in the same room) now and both have GF's they bang like what seems 24/7. Some people are just weird hehe. __________________ "It's a male duck."

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Derek the Wolf Furry Overlord Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Majority Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 1,325 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school There's 1 guy in my school who acts totally femme, but says he's straight. I dunno, doesn't really bother me. Let him act as he likes, that's his prerogative. Don't let it get to you hun. __________________

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George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: gay-acting straights in school There's a few guys at my school who are extremely feminine and 'straight'. And there's also heaps of guys who are definitely straight but sometimes act gay in jest.

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Nixon EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Go to Catholic School So, NO Location: Dundee, Nebraska (It's in Omaha) Age: 19 Posts: 575 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school ya air humping during homecoming is a standard fixture __________________ "I drink to stay warm, then kill selected memories"- Conor Oberst' "Some people don't know me neither do I"

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Bunny EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boys <3 Out Status: if they would only ask Location: Canada~ Age: 18 Posts: 430 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school Yeah, I know a group of guys who do the same stuff, like it's a running gag. But around here? Odds are they really are gay. This school is just full of closet cases. xD ...And then of course, there are the girls who pretend to be bisexual to impress guys...

21st Dec 2008, 01:36 AM	#20
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: gay-acting straights in school When I was in high school there were individuals that acted like that. It was very annoying. Especially in gym. I just used to think of one word -- immature. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin