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  1. Akira12

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    So I may have admitted my feelings to this one girl I've talked to for about a year now and was wondering if what I'm feeling is love or what. Ever since I met her I just want to hold her in my arms make her pain go away and make her happy and laugh and just be with her and everything. When I'm around her I can be me and just have fun and she is my world. Is this love? We ended up talking and she admitted to having feelings for me and I said I think I do as well ever since I met u and we are now dating. What exactly do u do when in a relationship? Is there anything to not say to be like to affectionate or what? I'm clueless when it comes to this lol
     
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    First off it sounds like love. It sounds an awful lot like love so congrats :3

    Second, the only thing you need to do is be yourself. What draws you to her is that you feel like you can be yourself and you've been yourself around her and she likes you so clearly being yourself is the best way to be.


    Starting a relationship doesn't mean you have to change who you are. The person you love can also be your best friend a lot of the times so just be you and do what feels natural for you.

    The only truly important rule of a relationship is honesty. Don't hide things from each other and don't try to be something you are not.
     
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    Think so? Yea kinda thought that I should just be myself lol just idk wanted to ask lol. Man I'm sitting here with this big smile on my face when I think about it lol
     
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    :slight_smile:

    Yeah of course you should just be yourself.

    I'm glad you're happy ^^
     
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    Thanks! This is pretty awesome feeling lol. Funny thing is me and my mom were talking about me finding someone to be with yesterday lol.
     
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    Sometimes things just work out, ya know?
     
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    Yea it's pretty cool lol xD. Just had to share I guess lol
     
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    Sounds like love to me. The beginning stages of it at least :slight_smile:

    As for your relationship - there aren't really any guidelines. It's up to you two to define what you're comfortable with in terms of affection.