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-Michael- · 21st Dec 2008, 12:33 PM

I think that's spelt correctly.

Anywho:

Quit Smoking
Quit sarcasm
Quit meat
Quit obsessive-ness
Find a boyf.

:')

Only supposed to have one, but I see too many flaws in myself.

Now you.

Z3ni · 21st Dec 2008, 12:34 PM

Get my driving test done, stop being lazy, be happier ?

**EM68** · 21st Dec 2008, 12:35 PM

Come out to my Family (Parents, Brother & Sister)!

Derek the Wolf · 21st Dec 2008, 01:50 PM

Quit meat?? Quit sarcasm?? Quit smoking??
Why not just quit being happy?
Those goals, although excellent, are a little too high for me to even consider.
Good luck with it!

**Maddy** · 21st Dec 2008, 03:41 PM

I resolved when I was 11 to not make a resolution, and I've stuck with that ever since.

**Martin** · 21st Dec 2008, 03:44 PM

Stop swearing.
Stop biting my nails.

This is the 6th year in a row I will be trying.

jazzrawr · 21st Dec 2008, 03:45 PM

Hmmm...I don't know. Maybe stand behind my decisions instead of backing out all the time.

BeautifulStranger · 21st Dec 2008, 03:46 PM

Uh...
Stop falling for the guys who treat me like shit
Drink more... a lot more. I mean, I only have 6 more months of legal drinking left.

See... I don't have any good ones.

starfish · 21st Dec 2008, 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Martin

Stop swearing.

Good luck. I have tried to stop swearing so many times and it it lasts at most 2 or 3 days.
I'll do good for a while and then something happens at work and then bam out it comes. I've pretty much given up and just try to keep from using f**k so much.

I have 3 goals for next year.
1. Quit suppressing my feelings.
2. Lose weight, I think 50 lbs is a reasonable goal.
3. Get on a regular exercise schedule.

crystaltriforce · 21st Dec 2008, 04:14 PM

lose weight, get a boyfriend and come out to the rest of my family, and work harder in school.

Apocalypte · 21st Dec 2008, 04:16 PM

The biggest one is to hold my nerve for one semester and finally finish my degree.
The other realy, really huge one is to finally come out to my parents - I'm trying to decide between coming out to them on New Year's Day or my 25th birthday (June 24 2009).
The smaller ones are to lose another 25lbs to bring me down to my goal weight of 145lbs and to run at least a half-marathon in 2009.
I'd also love a girlfriend...

starfish · 21st Dec 2008, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Apocalypte

The biggest one is to hold my nerve for one semester and finally finish my degree.

The final semester is the hardest one. I was just ready to say fuck it and walk away from the whole thing.

Tim · 21st Dec 2008, 04:44 PM

Be More Positive :P

Paralyzer · 21st Dec 2008, 04:46 PM

Come out to family (not dad)
Become a swimmer/runner
Become amazingly sexy
Get a job
Start drinking
Avenge my virginity
Find someone to help me move on
Figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life.. since, of course, at this age that should be one of my main priorities.

Be happy

TheRoof · 21st Dec 2008, 05:38 PM

do well on my SAT-it's gonna be on march omg-and also do well in school-my goal is valedictorian in my grade
stay positive no matter what
not fight with my sister and parents about small stupid issues
be more confident and comfortable in my own skin

21st Dec 2008, 07:42 PM

I'd have plenty if I thought about it, but I wouldn't do them anyways. If I want to change myself, I don't need New Years to do it. That's my opinion on New Year's resolutions.

Mickey · 21st Dec 2008, 09:51 PM

My New Years Resolution? To give up making New years resolutions!

Greggers · 21st Dec 2008, 10:06 PM

To turn my chest from flab to rock!

21st Dec 2008, 10:09 PM

Lol like Will Smith said, anything you can bother making a resolution for you probably should have been working on it 8 months ago. That's why I don't make them.

Starshine16 · 21st Dec 2008, 10:16 PM

I usually make resolutions,buth them they end up broken a week later.I plan on making a new years resolution to be completely out of the closet by June.

21st Dec 2008, 12:33 PM	#1
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	New years resolution I think that's spelt correctly. Anywho: Quit Smoking Quit sarcasm Quit meat Quit obsessive-ness Find a boyf. :') Only supposed to have one, but I see too many flaws in myself. Now you.

21st Dec 2008, 12:34 PM	#2
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New years resolution Get my driving test done, stop being lazy, be happier ? __________________ Through pain, lies success.

21st Dec 2008, 12:35 PM	#3
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: New years resolution Come out to my Family (Parents, Brother & Sister)! __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga Last edited by EM68; 21st Dec 2008 at 12:41 PM..

21st Dec 2008, 01:50 PM	#4
Derek the Wolf Furry Overlord Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Majority Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 1,325 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: New years resolution Quit meat?? Quit sarcasm?? Quit smoking?? Why not just quit being happy? Those goals, although excellent, are a little too high for me to even consider. Good luck with it! __________________

21st Dec 2008, 03:41 PM	#5
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,702 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: New years resolution I resolved when I was 11 to not make a resolution, and I've stuck with that ever since. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

21st Dec 2008, 03:44 PM	#6
Martin EC's Red Queen EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,044 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: New years resolution Stop swearing. Stop biting my nails. This is the 6th year in a row I will be trying.

21st Dec 2008, 03:45 PM	#7
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: New years resolution Hmmm...I don't know. Maybe stand behind my decisions instead of backing out all the time. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

21st Dec 2008, 03:46 PM	#8
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: New years resolution Uh... Stop falling for the guys who treat me like shit Drink more... a lot more. I mean, I only have 6 more months of legal drinking left. See... I don't have any good ones. __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

21st Dec 2008, 04:14 PM	#10
crystaltriforce raised by nintendo and sega Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but extended family Location: outside of Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 1,825 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: New years resolution lose weight, get a boyfriend and come out to the rest of my family, and work harder in school. __________________ we need masculinity....PUT ON THE "FUZZY FUZZY CUTE CUTE" SONG!!!

21st Dec 2008, 04:16 PM	#11
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New years resolution The biggest one is to hold my nerve for one semester and finally finish my degree. The other realy, really huge one is to finally come out to my parents - I'm trying to decide between coming out to them on New Year's Day or my 25th birthday (June 24 2009). The smaller ones are to lose another 25lbs to bring me down to my goal weight of 145lbs and to run at least a half-marathon in 2009. I'd also love a girlfriend... __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

21st Dec 2008, 04:44 PM	#13
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: New years resolution Be More Positive :P __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

21st Dec 2008, 04:46 PM	#14
Paralyzer Steven Brightside Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Friendly Out Status: A lot Location: Virginia Age: 20 Posts: 1,091 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: New years resolution Come out to family (not dad) Become a swimmer/runner Become amazingly sexy Get a job Start drinking Avenge my virginity Find someone to help me move on Figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life.. since, of course, at this age that should be one of my main priorities. Be happy __________________ every line on your face makes a beautiful maze for my eyes to trace

21st Dec 2008, 05:38 PM	#15
TheRoof True Blue Full Member Gender: genderqueer Orientation: I like who I like. Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,452 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: New years resolution do well on my SAT-it's gonna be on march omg-and also do well in school-my goal is valedictorian in my grade stay positive no matter what not fight with my sister and parents about small stupid issues be more confident and comfortable in my own skin __________________ Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. -Diane Arbus-

21st Dec 2008, 07:42 PM	#16
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: New years resolution I'd have plenty if I thought about it, but I wouldn't do them anyways. If I want to change myself, I don't need New Years to do it. That's my opinion on New Year's resolutions.

21st Dec 2008, 09:51 PM	#17
Mickey Older and bolder! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Massachusetts Age: 50 Posts: 1,775 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: New years resolution My New Years Resolution? To give up making New years resolutions! __________________ We don't choose to be gay...we're CHOSEN!

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21st Dec 2008, 10:06 PM	#18
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: New years resolution To turn my chest from flab to rock! __________________ "It's a male duck."

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Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: New years resolution Lol like Will Smith said, anything you can bother making a resolution for you probably should have been working on it 8 months ago. That's why I don't make them.

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Starshine16 One Day At A Time Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but grandmother and uncle Location: California Age: 26 Posts: 563 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New years resolution I usually make resolutions,buth them they end up broken a week later.I plan on making a new years resolution to be completely out of the closet by June.