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apollo89 · 21st Dec 2008, 06:06 PM

I don't know if this is just me or something, but has anyone noticed how homoerotic gay relationships have gotten? I know a few friends who "fake gay" with each other, like their dating or fucking each other. It is fun and interesting to watch.

And some of my straight friends have just become to comfortable with themselves that I can have a gay convo with them and they wont freak out so much. For example, me and this girl friend of mine were talking about this guys ass, and this straight guy was talking about how he didnt see what was so great about his ass. Mind you, this is a baseball player and the other guy is on the baseball team as well. Idk, it just seems so funny and interesting to watch.

boy0boy · 21st Dec 2008, 06:12 PM

it's fine by me.. as long as its some kind of acceptance and not negative

starfish · 21st Dec 2008, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by apollo89

I don't know if this is just me or something, but has anyone noticed how homoerotic gay relationships have gotten? ...

Maybe I am missing something, but I thought that was the point of being in a gay relationship?

Blaz · 21st Dec 2008, 07:52 PM

Yeah. . .uh. . .I don't quite follow though I think I may know what you were hinting at.

Swamp56 · 21st Dec 2008, 07:55 PM

I've never encountered this....lol, if only I had :P .

21st Dec 2008, 07:57 PM

I've never had this happen yet.

21st Dec 2008, 09:01 PM

I think he ment to say friendship, not relationship.

I'm not out, yet 90% of the 'straight' guys i talk with will have gay conversations, the most recent, a guy joked about going on a date. He puts out on the first date aswell he says

21st Dec 2008, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by starfish

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Originally Posted by apollo89

I don't know if this is just me or something, but has anyone noticed how homoerotic gay relationships have gotten? ...

Maybe I am missing something, but I thought that was the point of being in a gay relationship?

*high-fives*

I think he meant straight relationships... Hence the title.

Étoile · 21st Dec 2008, 09:21 PM

I've only seen this occur between 'straight' guys. When an openly or suspected gay guy tries this stuff, it's suddenly inappropriate.

musican · 21st Dec 2008, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Étoile

I've only seen this occur between 'straight' guys. When an openly or suspected gay guy tries this stuff, it's suddenly inappropriate.

Exactly, that's why I'm so uncomfortable around guys. I don't know how to act because what is appropriate for them, is creepy for me.

Étoile · 21st Dec 2008, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by musican

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Originally Posted by Étoile

I've only seen this occur between 'straight' guys. When an openly or suspected gay guy tries this stuff, it's suddenly inappropriate.

Exactly, that's why I'm so uncomfortable around guys. I don't know how to act because what is appropriate for them, is creepy for me.

Me too musician. They mistake your friendliness for sexual interest and get all weird and uncomfortable around you. Calm down dude, I'm not like you; I have standards.

musican · 21st Dec 2008, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Étoile

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Originally Posted by musican

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Originally Posted by Étoile

I've only seen this occur between 'straight' guys. When an openly or suspected gay guy tries this stuff, it's suddenly inappropriate.

Exactly, that's why I'm so uncomfortable around guys. I don't know how to act because what is appropriate for them, is creepy for me.

Me too musician. They mistake your friendliness for sexual interest and get all weird and uncomfortable around you. Calm down dude, I'm not like you; I have standards.

Nice one!

It's really weird because some people try to include me and I don't know how to react, I usually just leave so I feel less awkward.

summersforecast · 22nd Dec 2008, 02:50 AM

are you saying that theres to much acceptance from them or something??!!

Gumtree · 22nd Dec 2008, 03:56 AM

They're great to watch, I enjoy being a hypocrite and acting all homophobic about it but in the end I hate how they always make me question a straight guys sexuality; generally leading to me getting hurt.

**Lexington** · 22nd Dec 2008, 06:49 AM

I think it's because they see how kick-ass our relationships are...and they wish they could take part in it.

Lex

Psychedelic Bookmarks · 22nd Dec 2008, 07:11 AM

I have noticed this. There are a few guys at school who will join in with convos about whether another guy is hot or not, even though they're straight. Generally it's only the really popular/cool guys who feel confident enough to do that, though.

apollo89 · 22nd Dec 2008, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by SAGUY84

I think he ment to say friendship, not relationship.

I'm not out, yet 90% of the 'straight' guys i talk with will have gay conversations, the most recent, a guy joked about going on a date. He puts out on the first date aswell he says

This is what I meant. Sorry, I didn't word the thread properly.

Trumpetplyer23 · 22nd Dec 2008, 10:34 AM

I've seen girls do this kind of stuff. Not the fake fucking, but, stuff like slapping each other on the ass (hell, I do it to my guy and girl friends, as long as I know they'll be fine with it), grabbing each other's asses, sleeping in the same bed as each other, sitting on each other's laps, comparing boobs, comparing weight, looking at each other's butt, etc.

The girls at my school are really weird, lmao.

The guys refuse to do anything like that.

22nd Dec 2008, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexington

I think it's because they see how kick-ass our relationships are...and they wish they could take part in it.

Lex

HECK YES!!!!!

This happened to me all the way through highschool. No one really noticed. But I dont actively discuss some guys arse with my friends (almost all of them are male). The only thing I can say to them is "That guy is such a babe" which I proceeded to text to my friends at the movies, during the middle of the new James Bond movie

TheRoof · 22nd Dec 2008, 02:02 PM

lol i would love to have a straight friend like that!
that would be so cool lol

21st Dec 2008, 06:06 PM	#1
apollo89 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Houston, TX Age: 22 Posts: 48 Join Date: Jul 2008	Straight Guy Relationships I don't know if this is just me or something, but has anyone noticed how homoerotic gay relationships have gotten? I know a few friends who "fake gay" with each other, like their dating or fucking each other. It is fun and interesting to watch. And some of my straight friends have just become to comfortable with themselves that I can have a gay convo with them and they wont freak out so much. For example, me and this girl friend of mine were talking about this guys ass, and this straight guy was talking about how he didnt see what was so great about his ass. Mind you, this is a baseball player and the other guy is on the baseball team as well. Idk, it just seems so funny and interesting to watch. __________________ "In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." - Martin Luther King Jr.

21st Dec 2008, 06:12 PM	#2
boy0boy the Lorax Full Member Gender: bro Orientation: I dig Dudes Out Status: outside the box Location: I wander often Age: 23 Posts: 254 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Straight Guy Relationships it's fine by me.. as long as its some kind of acceptance and not negative __________________ "I love you.... I've always felt that there was this unspoken connection between us, and ever since the first time I saw you and you were holding my favorite pop-tart."

21st Dec 2008, 07:52 PM	#4
Blaz Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay but curious. Out Status: 1 person :) Location: California Posts: 474 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Straight Guy Relationships Yeah. . .uh. . .I don't quite follow though I think I may know what you were hinting at.

21st Dec 2008, 07:55 PM	#5
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I've never encountered this....lol, if only I had :P . __________________

21st Dec 2008, 07:57 PM	#6
BitterEdge Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I've never had this happen yet.

21st Dec 2008, 09:01 PM	#7
SAGUY84 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I think he ment to say friendship, not relationship. I'm not out, yet 90% of the 'straight' guys i talk with will have gay conversations, the most recent, a guy joked about going on a date. He puts out on the first date aswell he says

21st Dec 2008, 09:21 PM	#9
Étoile He ate my heart Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I've only seen this occur between 'straight' guys. When an openly or suspected gay guy tries this stuff, it's suddenly inappropriate.

22nd Dec 2008, 02:50 AM	#13
summersforecast EC Addict Full Member Gender: Carl Orientation: I like dudes and crazy chicks(mostly dudes) Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Johnson City Age: 18 Posts: 777 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Straight Guy Relationships are you saying that theres to much acceptance from them or something??!! __________________ meh..

22nd Dec 2008, 03:56 AM	#14
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Straight Guy Relationships They're great to watch, I enjoy being a hypocrite and acting all homophobic about it but in the end I hate how they always make me question a straight guys sexuality; generally leading to me getting hurt. __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.

22nd Dec 2008, 06:49 AM	#15
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I think it's because they see how kick-ass our relationships are...and they wish they could take part in it. Lex

22nd Dec 2008, 07:11 AM	#16
Psychedelic Bookmarks Helena Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Close family and quite a few friends Location: UK Age: 18 Posts: 2,195 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Straight Guy Relationships I have noticed this. There are a few guys at school who will join in with convos about whether another guy is hot or not, even though they're straight. Generally it's only the really popular/cool guys who feel confident enough to do that, though. __________________ "I refuse to recognize the terms hetero-, bi-, and homo-sexual. Everybody has exactly the same sexual needs. People are just sexual, the prefix is immaterial." (Morissey)

22nd Dec 2008, 02:02 PM	#20
TheRoof True Blue Full Member Gender: genderqueer Orientation: I like who I like. Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,452 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Straight Guy Relationships lol i would love to have a straight friend like that! that would be so cool lol __________________ Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. -Diane Arbus-

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