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Bisexuals, do you have a preference?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by thewolf, Jul 29, 2015.

  1. thewolf

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    Assuming I am indeed bi, my preference is for guys, but only sexually. I see myself marrying a girl.
     
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    At the moment...I'm not sure...my bisexuality is a huge mess lol.
    Whenever I think of a romantic relationship, like a Romeo & Juliet or The Fault In Our Stars kind of thing, I feel the strongest attraction to guys. When I think of a more sexual, physical relationship, I'm primarily attracted to girls. I'd rather have a girlfriend than I boyfriend right now, but I see myself getting married to and having kids with a guy. I feel more comfortable around girls but I want to protected by a guy :confused: it's a mess I tell you...

    If you want a straight-forward and formal answer, then I would have to say girls because I always get #4 on the Kinsey Scale, and that result is basically a little bit more homosexual than heterosexual. But these days, it's a bit more 50/50...again, it's huge mess.
     
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    My sexual preference is for girls mainly
    Romantic, I'm more likely to fall in love with a guy, but I can get just as emotionally attracted to a girl
    I find both sexes aesthetically pleasing
     
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    I'm pretty sure either my preference is for girls, or I like both equally. I do find both genders attractive though, and I can definitely see myself dating both.
     
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    I'm attracted to both genders in a romantical and sexual way I guess although that varies too. But I'm more attracted to girls in any way and that hardly changes.
     
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    I have a stronger attraction and preference for women.
     
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    I'm sexually much, much more attracted to girls. Romantically it's a mess.
     
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    I prefer men
     
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    I usually hate the term 'preference' because it puts everything strictly into a black and white matter of man or woman, then leaves no room for non-binary genders. The way I look at it is my attraction to each gender is unique, (not to be condescending but) it's a thing I haven't seen very many monosexuals comprehend (just like it's harder to grasp what dysphoria is unless you've experienced it). Even when you boil it down to simply gender, you also have to take in account how certain members of each gender present.

    I don't like to oversimplify my attraction to folks but for the sake of this thread I will say I am more attracted to girls.
     
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    Muh preferences... they mean business. They won't leave me alone!
     
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    I much prefer girls romantically.
     
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    The fairer sex.
     
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    I prefer girls, romantically and sexually! ^.^
     
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    I've never stopped to really analyze my preferences, but I feel pretty comfortable at this point saying that no, I don't.
    Actually, I wonder about preferences. Is it in frequency of attraction, or intensity of attraction, or type of attraction? I find it intriguing.
     
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    Over the years this question has haunted me perhaps more than any other, but now I have finally accepted I am primarily girl orientated, certainly in so far as I am still deeply attracted to my wife more than any other person. But straight I am not.
     
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    I feel like my Sexuality is definitely fluid, so this month I'm into girls. Next month I'll probably like guys more. I mean I definitely see myself marrying a girl, but I'm sexually attracted to men. I don't really have a preference all that much, but I know that it varies a lot.​
     
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    It can be either frequency or intensity. Everyone is different. I'm in the "frequency camp."
     
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    Yeah! That post got me thinking...
    I'm more frequently romantically attracted to males, and more intensely sexually attracted to girls.
    Now I feel like I phrased that right
     
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    I don't know. I have my personal pros and cons when thinking about both men and women.. but I'm not super picky.. I value personality over looks and I also value honesty and commitment. Never, EVER tell me that you'll hope I stick around or tell me that you really like me if you don't because that will break the bond we share.