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Dominant or Submissive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ForNarnia, Jul 30, 2015.

  1. ForNarnia

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    In a relationship, are you more Dominant or Submissive? (Or a Switch?)

    Personally, I would say I'm a Dom, however, as a Sadomasochist, I would be willing to Switch in very rare circumstances.

    How about you guys?
     
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    Submissive, as much as I hate to admit it...
     
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    Sub. Being a top or dom doesn't really appeal to me. I'd say my GF is the more dominant one.
     
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    Depends on what we want to try.

    If I like somebody enough, and we get to that level, I'd be willing to try about anything with them. Then again, I may be weird for thinking that versatility means more options and more enjoyment, and that we should both 'share' the roles in our relationship.

    But for the sake of answering this with the choices provided, I'd say I'd fall in the Dominant camp.
     
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    You aren't weird for thinking that, you are correct~
     
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    would imagine I'd be submissive
     
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    sub, but I could consider switching a bit
     
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    I don't have that much experience, but with the partners I've had, it's always been pretty equal. No clear dominant or submissive -- or, if there is, the roles are swapped regularly.
    I'd be open to either, so, I guess... a switch, if I had to choose.
     
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    I prefer the idea of being dominant, but submissive is my personality. I want to become more confident, but I'm just so shy and hesitant! >.<

    I guess if I had a girlfriend, I would be whichever she makes me want to be.
     
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    Hmm I guess I'm more on the submissive side.
     
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    Definitely dominant.
     
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    Wow, if i was female I dunno what I'd be.. Probably the same way I am now.
     
  17. Miko

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    I'm a submissive, quite masochistic too, which works! My girlfriend is a dominant sadist. ^-^
     
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    I used to think I was very submissive, didn't really like the idea of being dominate. I've actually been asked to be dominate sometimes and it always made me uncomfortable.

    However last girl I was with I ended up taking over and being EXTREMELY dominate and pretty much did whatever I wanted... we both loved it and now I'm very confused.

    So yeah...I don't know what I am. I'd say switch but that doesn't sound right either...
     
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    Very dominant. B)