So, there's this douche bag by the name of Stephen Anderson. I'm sure you've heard of him at some point. He is a blatant homophope who thinks gays should be killed. I unfortunately find him Aesthetically attractive. I suppose the good thing is that I'm not sexually or romantically attracted to him, but Aesthetic Attraction is what I feel for him, and it's still too much. I have regretted it since I heard of him. Thing is, I don't want to find any douche bag attractive in ANY way. But it's regrettably not something I can choose. I really do hate myself for that. Anybody else find themselves attracted to jerks, or is it just me? Thanks a bunch.
You're not alone, I've crushed on a douche for months, although I must say he does has his qualities.
I don't think I've ever heard of him, but I don't care how physically attractive that person may be. If they're an ignorant homophobe, that in itself would turn me off. :eusa_snoo
^Agreed There was a jerk-y guy for me once, made worse by the fact that I'm pretty sure he was only homophobic (he was only somewhat negative about gay people) because he was questioning and seemed to be trying to come out to me. Oh, I'd have loved it if we had been / if we still could be close friends.
I get that, I wish I could choose who I was attracted to too sometimes. You can't help who you are attracted to/who you find attractive- aesthetically or more than that- but I guess you can choose whether or not you pursue it. If they're a huge jerk I tend to just leave it and don't do anything.
I would go even further to say that I wish I could turn off attraction in general, but I guess that is another story... I do get what you mean though. There is this one guy I work with who has like an everlasting period(even if he has been surprisingly pleasant lately), who's constantly irked the hell out of me with his attitudes and now occasional homophobic remarks, whom I admit I find pretty attractive.
I was almost certain I was inlove with a ''slut'' when I was 15. She was a 25 year old backpacker and though she could be nice she was very.. I don't know how to explain it. I heard her having sex one night.. I can't deny hearing her moan turned me on so much! Part of me wanted her more because of her skanky attitude. I think dominant/bitchy women can be fucking sexy for all the wrong reasons to me. I kind of just want to fuck them and leave them though. I try hard not to get attached emotionally!
