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Would you porn a date actor?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Van, Aug 1, 2015.

  1. Van

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    Would you? Yes? No? Why? :rolle:



    OK, let me start - I wouldn't. Why? I'm not OK with my man having sex with thousands of people. I don't share. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:






    P.S. Yes, the title is like that on purpose.
     
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    If they were sweet
     
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    If you could retitle the question then maybe I can answer :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    But seriously, probably not.
     
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    Maybe, but I would not porn an actor for a date.


    :wink:
     
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    If they used protection and didn't sleep with anyone that wasn't for work purposes, sure; I could.
     
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    Just noticed the title.

    Wowwww.

    I think my brain registered the word 'porn' then my eyes glazed over the rest
     
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    Like mentioned above as long as they always went for a condom and only slept with people for work, I'd be more than happy to.
     
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    Feel the same as you. And I'm a jealous hag.
     
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    I would very worried about anyone my age starring in porn :roflmao:
     
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    I know, right! I'd be like * pointing at him* 'the mouth, the ass, the dick... hands, body, mind - all MINE. No one else touches you, OK?' :roflmao:



    Who said you have to? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: And, kid, whatchu even doing in this conversation? :grin: Seriously, don't watch porn. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Depends on the kind of porn they do, and if they're clean. But yeah why not, in a world where sex isn't as taboo or stigmatized would a movie star be all that different than a porn star?
     
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    I would. If my partner ever did that for a living, I'd support him in it. As long as it was a good living, he enjoyed it, and he didn't feel exploited. He'd have to be protected and test often. But working in the industry doesn't mean you less of a person. Hell, one of my bosses is a porn actress. I don't think less of anyone for doing porn if it's something they like doing and I certainly wouldn't judge someone if that's what they decided to do.
     
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    Ahahaha, I just had to make that joke!
     
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    I don't think i would because. They seem larger than life if you know what I mean
     
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    I would like to think that I would be able to date a porn actor, but in reality, I probably would not. Yes, I'm aware this is unfair for the guys who do this as a living.

    Point A

    Considering sex is probably a pretty normal thing for people in healthy relationships to engage in, I think dating a porn actor would set unrealistic expectations in the bedroom. Even if the guys were mentally on the same level, I feel like the vast difference in sexual experience would drive a barrier in between them.

    Point B

    I think monogamy includes both emotional and physical aspects. If you're dating a porn actor, then they aren't monogamous physically.

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    Would I date a retired actor? I think it would be hard to get past Point A. If you could get past Point A though, they tested cleanly of disease, and the guy was monogamous emotionally and physically, I don't see why we couldn't date each other.

    It's complicated.
     
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    I think i would. They are only acting, they're not engaging in emotional relationships while they work.
     
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    No. I couldn't relate to having made that decision. They'd also be out of my league. But I wouldn't be interested.

    But, of all of them, the one that is among the more interesting is [name]. He no longer acts and now produces or something like that.
     
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    Nope, the whole pornstar thing would be a total turn off
     
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    I would, and i'd probably ask hundred of questions on how to be better at it :grin: