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Markio · 25th Dec 2008, 05:16 PM

What to you resolve to do or abstain from doing in the following year? I'm unsure as of yet, though I suspect I'll limit "playing with myself" to once a week. And no badmouthing my roommates! What about you all?

25th Dec 2008, 05:47 PM

Good grades?
Less junkfood? (ha, like that would ever happen)

crystaltriforce · 25th Dec 2008, 05:59 PM

get in shape, get a job, get better grades and get a boyfriend or a girlfriend (preferibly a boyfriend). and yes i know i posted the same resolutions on another thread.

**EM68** · 25th Dec 2008, 06:02 PM

Come out to my parents, brother and sister. Work out more consistently. Also build up my client base so I can make more money

Adam · 25th Dec 2008, 06:06 PM

Come out to at least my family sometimes in the year.
Stop smoking cigarettes, or just less then I have been.
Get a job.

James · 25th Dec 2008, 06:12 PM

Loose weight, get a job and buy a project car that I can work on in my spare time.

Jeimuzu · 25th Dec 2008, 06:39 PM

Size 30 waist. Currently a 32.

Pass university.

Do summer camp again.

Anything after that is a bonus. xD

Noah · 25th Dec 2008, 06:44 PM

Come out to siblings, Be ready for uni, be confident in who i am, rediscover faith

25th Dec 2008, 07:00 PM

Get my gaming licence so I can continue serving behind a bar,
Drink soy milk to try and limit asthma attacks
Star running and swimming again
Come out to family.

Bryan · 25th Dec 2008, 07:29 PM

Simple... Go on at least one date by the end of the year.

Not so simple... Solve my depression.

Starshine16 · 25th Dec 2008, 07:44 PM

Come out to at least my parents.Probably not my yes on Prop 8 uncle or my Catholic grandmother no matter how much I love them.The second one is to go on one date this year.The third one is to get back into the gym.

Brandford · 25th Dec 2008, 07:48 PM

A boyfriend or at least some friends and to make more friends on here as well

Bunny · 25th Dec 2008, 07:59 PM

Come out to my family, of course. Gosh that would make life so much easier.

Maybe get in shape...not lose weight, I'm thin enough, but I'm a complete wimp. :P

Shyvin · 25th Dec 2008, 09:26 PM

alrighty then folks

-come out to everyone (family, friends, future co-employees)
-start exercising and eating healthy (I live in America aka "The Nation of Fast Food and Unnecessary Conveniences That Contribute To Lazy Lifestyles", in other words this will be harder than coming out.)
-FIND LOVE, get a boyfriend, or at least kiss a guy, it's been too long *cries*
-Go back to college
-Get a job (just something that will support me through college.)

Unrealistic (At least I'm labeling them as such, still good to dream big):

-Start a band
-Write a book/screenplay
-Direct a film based on something I wrote

shakerdancee · 26th Dec 2008, 03:03 AM

Fuck it. I am wonderful.

Janvier · 26th Dec 2008, 03:16 AM

Work out.
Stop smoking.
Eat healthier.
Spend less time on the net, more on music.
Concentrate more on work.
Find a school.
Stop looking for a bf.

SpacerX · 26th Dec 2008, 03:27 AM

i always try to avoid resolutions, because i always forget about them. but since we're here i could list a few things i wouldn't mind accomplishing;

-be more communicative with my family
-stop smoking cigarettes
-get back writing again
-stop getting ridiculously drunk at weekends (i've ruined too many shoes at this stage)

that's it really... i'm starting to think i really wanna do those things now!

riddlerno1 · 26th Dec 2008, 03:53 AM

Um try something new? Well i think that should have been last years resolution before i came out??!!! Lol!

Peter · 26th Dec 2008, 04:14 AM

Stop making resolutions I won't keep in any case.

Gumtree · 26th Dec 2008, 04:59 AM

Be a serious vegetarian by the end of the year.

Hold onto a BF for more then a few months.

Move away.

25th Dec 2008, 05:16 PM	#1
Markio EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family, friends, and staff! Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,139 Join Date: Oct 2008	New Years Resolutions 2009 What to you resolve to do or abstain from doing in the following year? I'm unsure as of yet, though I suspect I'll limit "playing with myself" to once a week. And no badmouthing my roommates! What about you all? __________________ Celebrate diversity!

25th Dec 2008, 05:47 PM	#2
ColbieMarie Guest Posts: n/a	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Good grades? Less junkfood? (ha, like that would ever happen)

25th Dec 2008, 05:59 PM	#3
crystaltriforce raised by nintendo and sega Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but extended family Location: outside of Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 1,825 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 get in shape, get a job, get better grades and get a boyfriend or a girlfriend (preferibly a boyfriend). and yes i know i posted the same resolutions on another thread. __________________ we need masculinity....PUT ON THE "FUZZY FUZZY CUTE CUTE" SONG!!!

25th Dec 2008, 06:02 PM	#4
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Come out to my parents, brother and sister. Work out more consistently. Also build up my client base so I can make more money __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

25th Dec 2008, 06:06 PM	#5
Adam EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 539 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Come out to at least my family sometimes in the year. Stop smoking cigarettes, or just less then I have been. Get a job.

25th Dec 2008, 06:12 PM	#6
James EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: PEI, Canada Age: 20 Posts: 927 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Loose weight, get a job and buy a project car that I can work on in my spare time.

25th Dec 2008, 06:39 PM	#7
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Size 30 waist. Currently a 32. Pass university. Do summer camp again. Anything after that is a bonus. xD __________________

25th Dec 2008, 06:44 PM	#8
Noah Killer Queen Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Wilde Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Macon, GA Posts: 494 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Come out to siblings, Be ready for uni, be confident in who i am, rediscover faith __________________ Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep. -Scott Adams

25th Dec 2008, 07:00 PM	#9
tomahto72 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Get my gaming licence so I can continue serving behind a bar, Drink soy milk to try and limit asthma attacks Star running and swimming again Come out to family.

25th Dec 2008, 07:29 PM	#10
Bryan EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: bestfriend & parents Location: South Florida Age: 21 Posts: 530 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Simple... Go on at least one date by the end of the year. Not so simple... Solve my depression.

25th Dec 2008, 07:44 PM	#11
Starshine16 One Day At A Time Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but grandmother and uncle Location: California Age: 26 Posts: 563 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Come out to at least my parents.Probably not my yes on Prop 8 uncle or my Catholic grandmother no matter how much I love them.The second one is to go on one date this year.The third one is to get back into the gym.

25th Dec 2008, 07:48 PM	#12
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 A boyfriend or at least some friends and to make more friends on here as well __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

25th Dec 2008, 07:59 PM	#13
Bunny EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boys <3 Out Status: if they would only ask Location: Canada~ Age: 18 Posts: 430 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Come out to my family, of course. Gosh that would make life so much easier. Maybe get in shape...not lose weight, I'm thin enough, but I'm a complete wimp. :P

25th Dec 2008, 09:26 PM	#14
Shyvin Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 27 Posts: 196 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 alrighty then folks -come out to everyone (family, friends, future co-employees) -start exercising and eating healthy (I live in America aka "The Nation of Fast Food and Unnecessary Conveniences That Contribute To Lazy Lifestyles", in other words this will be harder than coming out.) -FIND LOVE, get a boyfriend, or at least kiss a guy, it's been too long cries -Go back to college -Get a job (just something that will support me through college.) Unrealistic (At least I'm labeling them as such, still good to dream big): -Start a band -Write a book/screenplay -Direct a film based on something I wrote

26th Dec 2008, 03:03 AM	#15
shakerdancee Oom-pah! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure Out Status: Anyone who asks Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 304 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Fuck it. I am wonderful.

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26th Dec 2008, 03:16 AM	#16
Janvier يَناير Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: France Age: 22 Posts: 849 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Work out. Stop smoking. Eat healthier. Spend less time on the net, more on music. Concentrate more on work. Find a school. Stop looking for a bf. __________________ Uncertainty excites me.

26th Dec 2008, 03:27 AM	#17
SpacerX Experience = Learning Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and About! Location: Wexford, Ireland Posts: 104 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 i always try to avoid resolutions, because i always forget about them. but since we're here i could list a few things i wouldn't mind accomplishing; -be more communicative with my family -stop smoking cigarettes -get back writing again -stop getting ridiculously drunk at weekends (i've ruined too many shoes at this stage) that's it really... i'm starting to think i really wanna do those things now!

26th Dec 2008, 03:53 AM	#18
riddlerno1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: London Age: 29 Posts: 712 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Um try something new? Well i think that should have been last years resolution before i came out??!!! Lol!

26th Dec 2008, 04:14 AM	#19
Peter Just a guy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who is interested Location: Milton Keynes, England Age: 56 Posts: 474 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Stop making resolutions I won't keep in any case. __________________ Peter "God leaves us free to become whatever we like. We can be ourselves or not, as we please. We are at liberty to be real, or to be unreal. We may be true or false, the choice is ours." (Thomas Merton)

26th Dec 2008, 04:59 AM	#20
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: New Years Resolutions 2009 Be a serious vegetarian by the end of the year. Hold onto a BF for more then a few months. Move away. __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.