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Question for Kinsey 5's and 4's

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by scxred, Aug 8, 2015.

  1. scxred

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    I was just curious, what do you find physically/sexually attractive or interests you in the opposite sex? :icon_bigg
     
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    I am 5 on Kinsey, and I am attracted to guys emotionally.
     
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    I swing between 5 and 6- dependent on time of the month. I am attracted to femininity and gender-neutral traits in people. Eg in a guy I might like the lips or eyes, or long hair, etc.
    With people like that I will not feel that they are 'hot'- I will mostly experience an emotional pull towards them, based on something 'soft' in them. It does not happen frequently though.
     
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    Kinsey 4 here. Um...you want me to get graphic? Sexually, I don't think it's any different from what a straight woman might say. For me, the difference between men and women is the emotional impediments...it's what turns me *off* about the opposite sex. Many guys seem to naturally exude an air of possession toward women, particularly around sex. For me, this constitutes a major barrier that prevents me feeling close enough to them to *want* sex to happen. This air seems to be expressed most greatly through machismo...so that is a huge turnoff. It's not that I want feminine or effeminate men...at all. It's that I need a man who feel genuine respect toward women, and is able to work with me as an equal, rather than treating me like a set of responsibilities, like taking care of a pet or of fine china.

    Logic dictates to me that such men should be common. But I find them disturbingly rare (well...gay men like this seem fairly common, damn it...but straight and bisexual ones seem incredibly rare).
     
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    I've said it before, I'll say it again. When it comes to men, I'm attracted to the androgynous type, or the rock star type. I'm also attracted to heroes in fiction.
     
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    I'm a gay guy.
    Physically, very little. The more I accept myself as being gay, the less I try to make it work with women.

    Sexually, well from past experience when a lady comes on to me I've gone for it.
    But she holds the keys, I really don't initiate matters.
     
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    Emotional/Romantic Attraction to males, Sexual and Emotional/romantic to females
     
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    I'm a Kinsey 4 and this resonates with me. Plus, I like older guys, guys in uniforms or suits... Last week was a mess, because I fell for two teachers of "opposite" genders.
     
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    Truthfully for me, its purely sexual attraction toward men. I've tried relationships with men, they don't work I don't "feel" anything, or if I do it's not very strong. I only feel strong emotional connections to women.
     
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    For me, my problem is that I get emotionally attached. No offense at all to guys, but I don't like their parts, I like women parts.

    So for me, it is more that I care about him but at the end of the day I want to have sex with a woman, live with a woman etc.
     
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    I will say that I have never felt comfortable approaching girls. If one showed interest in me that I had a crush on, I would have gone for it. But one never did. I think part of it stems that I chased girls at recess in the 2nd grade, and a teacher that I highly respect told me to stop doing that. I think I overcompensated a bit and never really approached girls again on my own. I admit that I was a little girl crazy at that time for whatever reason.

    I really don't think that is why I started looking at and liking guys in the 5th grade.

    The weird thing is that I don't have a "type" for guys or girls. My sexuality is so complicated sometimes that it drives me up the wall.