What qualities repel you?

People in general: low maturity level, social media obsessions, people who can't commit to the relationship, poor personal hygiene, people who can't treat me as an equal, too much into dominant/submissive roles, or people who drink/smoke. (On a regular basis, especially smoking)
With men: expecting me to do the housework, if they're unhappy with me being independent and having a job in the future, and overly sexual men (nothing wrong with that, but I personally don't like the idea of sex with a guy)

 

1. People who don't respect themselves (I might be guilty of this)
2. People who think they're better than others

 

Insincerity, closed-mindedness, pessimism, laziness.

 

Being boring, naive and possibly underage, not taking care of yourself and being too heteronormative.

 

Stupidity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also racist, homophobic, transphobic, sexist are big no no
Someone who is run of the mill may be the easist way of describing it I want someone who differs from the norm.
I'm not going to say someone who isn't kinky but someone closed minded about sex

 

Kiss asses
Liars
Close minded people
Short sighted people

 

Good question, for me.. some political correctness. I don't think we always have to agree with everything, it's okay be against certain things. My biggest dislike rudeness, people who intimidate others, people who keep asking about top or bottom.. usually in a overt sexual way. People who are mostly just after sex only, I don't mind making flirtatious jokes & such.. but some people go too far.

 

Haughtiness ... far and away above many other irritants, though I also have quite a few others.

 

I find myself attracted to a variety of guys: I find muscular frat boys hot, but I also find skinny quiet nerds hot. Sometimes I think my preferences are too lenient.

Aside from traits that we all hate, I'm put off by people who can't laugh at themselves. I'm repelled by people who need to be in control all the time, by chauvinists...by men who have no interest in reading or academia...in reality, if I met a guy who seemed great and he didn't meet the full "checklist", I probably wouldn't care that much.

 

I don't think I have anything to list that haven't already been listen, but here's mine anyways:

- Ignorance
- Over-confidence
- Insincerity
- If someone is very NOT self-aware
- Liars
- Rude/demeaning people

Generally, my rule of thumb is "don't be a douche". If someone can't follow that one rule, I don't have room for them. I'll still be nice and polite to them, but nothing more.

 

Well.. Usually guys turn me off the most so maybe guys lmao? They are good friends though! I can trust guys way more in friendship!

Anyway.. For women because I like them romantically, physically and sexually: I don't know? Maybe dressing like a guy and mimicking masculine mannerisms? Also low hygiene and low self respect. I find nothing more of a turn off then a girl who gets drunk all the time.. Alcoholics, animal abusers, narcissists. Just stupid bitches who don't have a level ground for themselves or sense of direction in their life!

I will tell you this.. I fucking LOVE cute submissive women who are nurturing and sweetheart around family and in the daily life but are totally submissive in the bedroom! I kind of like dominating women too.. I don't know I can't explain my type of woman! Delta Goodrem and the oh so sexy Renee Bargh are a perfect example! xx

 

Arrogance, the kind of person who says they're "brutally honest" as an excuse to be a dick, the kind of person who thinks being told to stop being a dick is "violating my free speech" or "political correctness gone mad".

 

In general: ignorance, arrogance, stubbornness (is that a word?), prejudice based on somebody's faith, homophobia, racism, nationalism (specifically the ones who hate anyone who doesn't speak English visiting their country, yet they live in Tenerife for four months out of every year).

Also: being a Conservative

Also again: People who constantly act like Shaggy in the second Scooby-Doo movie when he's buff because of the potion he drank. Would you not literally shit yourself acting like that every second of the day?

 

Of course, there's the basics like...

Masculinity, in the sense of large muscles, short hair and the overall "masculine look". As well as being dominating, and such.

I like pretty and delicate people.

But other than that...

Drinking excessively, smoking (anything), and doing drugs.
Not keeping proper hygiene and having dirty habits.

 

Narcissism I suppose. How they always have to plaster photos of themselves or their half naked bodies for positive reinforcement and attention.

 

Religious fundamentalists, close-minded types, Republicans in general, masculinity, "dog worship", animal abuse, dirtiness, "Rednecks", conformists, heteronormativity, drug abuse, "super cool gangster", etc... Essentially the common sort of people in my area.

I'm okay with them being narcissists if they're hot, and the smoking won't bother me badly if they do it outside.

 

People that:

-Don't take care of your hair. I know, I'm very particular about hair and your way of tending to it. I really hate it when a guy's hair is constantly a mess. To the point where it looks like he's gotten into a fight with a weed-wacker... AND LOST.

-Don't wash their hair (You'd rather look like you shampooed your hair with a bottle of Crisco?). I know that for most of you guys, it dries up your hair. At least find a moisturizing shampoo....

-Don't show common courtesy.

-Social justice warriors. Annoying af.

-Judge me for being a libertarian and make snap judgments. I'm not an anti-government anarchist!

-Don't dress properly for certain occasions like semi-formal gatherings. Especially ladies that think they should dress up like hoochie-coochies and guys that dress up like slobs.

-Self-absorption. No need for an explanation here.

-Constantly fishing for complements.

-Sagging your pants. Not cute.


Yeah, a lot of things put me off. This is an abridged list LOL

 

'Fisting' is a quality?

Well, fuck, no wonder I'm single! It's the missing piece!