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Do you think you're attractive?

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  1. MrSecret

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    The thought has crossed everyone's mind at some point in life, probably almost every time you look in the mirror actually. So on a scale of 1-10, do you think you're attractive? Try to be honest here.

    I think I'm about a 6/7 or so, sometimes I look in the mirror and think "Wow, I actually look kinda handsome" but whenever I see a photo of me I think "How come my reflection in the mirror doesn't show!?"

    I think it's because mirrors are reversed, so what the things I see that make me think I'm attractive, are actually flipped, causing myself to not see what I actually look like.

    Another thing is I'm only 5"1 or possibly 5"2, which means I'm short. And obviously, I would want to be taller but, that's genetics for you.
     
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    In truth, I'm probably not an ugly "biological" guy per se, probably average at best (not particularly ugly or handsome), but of course my hatred of my body due to my gender dysphoria probably skews my own opinions of my looks I would say.
     
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    I'd genuinely say 1/10 as anti-narcissistic as this means:slight_smile:. What's the opposite of narcissist anyway...sociopath? 0_0
    But yes, something low though I don't like to think in numbers. And frankly I am happy that way, who knows maybe people who think they're hot and who are really have more problems?
     
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    Idk, probably pretty average, overall. 7/10 maybe?

    People compliment me on my hair a lot, which is funny to me because I almost never brush it or get it cut, so it's a big tangly mess, and also very long. Lol.

    I have a lot of pimples, like, all over my body, and that's probably my worst physical flaw. They're slowly starting to go away though.

    People often tell me I'm cute, but it kind of annoys me... :/

    I'm also very thin and short, which I don't like either, but maybe if I were someone else, I would find myself attractive.
     
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    As I'm feeling rather confident at the moment, I'd say 6/7.
    I'm my depressive phases I'd tell you -1

    I'm pretty short, at least compared to most people at my school, and I like my body figure (sometimes) I'm rather thin too.

    People say my best feature are my eyes, hair and dimples. my hair is really long and thick, and I like it.

    The thing I hate most about my appearance is how hairy I am. I can't even shave my legs. I used to but they became so bad and I had to wax them (I still do) I often wear long sleeved shirts and pants to avoid waxing.
     
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    Pretty average
     
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    Not particularly. I'd say I'm about a 3 with maybe 6 potential.
     
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    I'd say I'm a six in my eyes. But then I have those moments when I look in the mirror and say who is that sexy beast XD. Then I have those moments when I want to just be someone else for a day. All I know is that I love myself and to someone else who knows.. I might be a ten XD.

    I wouldn't say looking masculine or feminine is important to me when dressing/ getting ready to go somewhere. I just kinda put on whatever. Identity issues were never a thing for me, whenever I do look in the mirror i don't see a boy or a girl. I mean physically I'm a boy.. but... never mind you get what I mean. I don't see a girl or a boy I just see me.

    That sounds kind of weird typing it and talking as I type too. Does anyone else do this.. type and talk XD
     
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    The question has crossed my mind many times, but I honestly don't know. When I look at my face, in just the right angle and lighting, sometimes I could picture myself being really handsome when I'm older and on T. I think I have the baseline for potential good looks in the future, maybe. But right now I'm pretty scrawny, and my face is just meh. People say "You're so pretty" and so on, but that doesn't help since I don't want to be pretty I want to be handsome.

    My mother is gorgeous so I suppose that's where any good looks come from.

    Rating myself, as is, I'd go 5 or maybe 6. Rating my adult, testosterone pumped self, perhaps as high as an 8.

    Though if I could ever grow a beard then it'd be a 9. Haha!
     
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    I'd rate myself as a 5.

    I'm 6'1 and wish I was shorter.. Every guy I like is shorter and I feel like the "giraffe" in the room. I have relatives that are taller which is nice at family parties lol
     
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    I'm about a 2 and I'm not putting myself down
     
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    When I'm in the bathroom mirror about to hop in the shower: 8/10

    Everywhere else: -10000000000000000000/10
     
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    I do that sometimes.
     
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    Yeah. Nearly everyone has that reaction - but you need to remember that the reflection you see in the mirror actually looks odd to everyone else because they're not used to seeing it. I know that when I see one of my friends in the mirror, I think it looks unusual because I'm not used to seeing their face flipped around like that, even though they probably prefer it.

    As for the thread question.. no comment, lol.
     
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    Hot AF. :grin: [​IMG]


    Seriously, though... Attractive? Oh, gurrl, NO! Pretty average - if I were someone else, I'd probably never look at myself and think 'Damn, he's attractive, I'd tap that'.
    Now, I'm aware that I'm not particularly ugly or anything, I just lack the attractiveness, so I'd say that I'm probably 1/10. 3/10 on a good day, maybe.
     
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    I think I'm an acquired taste. Make of that what you will.
     
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    Yes, but it might just be arrogance. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I don't really give it much thought.
     
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    I'm not exactly ugly, but I don't consider myself attractive. Maybe like a 5 or less.
     
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    ummmmm let's see
    -6 foot tall female
    -probably have scoliosis because of my neck and back shape
    -crooked teeth (not terrible)
    -knocked knees
    -i'm obese
    -and more
    ......so no I don't really find myself attractive but I make funny faces in the mirror to make myself laugh and that helps me forget.
     
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    Take the most unattractive person you know, and multiply it by 30. That's me! :grin: