"Attractive to straight people, but not gay people"

If somebody finds something about you attractive, they will. Be they straight, bisexual, or gay.

There isn't really anything you can do, outside of becoming such an over-the-top gay radical who alienates everybody, save for the separatists. That would attract a gay-only crowd...

Other than that, you're at the mercy of chance.

 

You can't help who you are attracted too. I'm guessing that it's not unusual.

 

There's no way.

 

I noticed that lesbians have great success among straight young men. I think because lesbians look and act at their ease. Straight girls are more restricted

 

Are we talking physical or what? If you mean that, I can personally agree.

I get consistent attention from straights, yet I'm a hideous beast to most lgbt guys I run across. ._.

 

Perhaps, who knows...in my case it's the opposite 0_0, getting lots of attention from gay men outside but not women. Guess it's good time to quote Bill Gates now: "Life is not fair, get used to it" .

 

I'm sure someone out there feels this way.

 

For some reason I have this penchant for attracting straight women. Some hot ones at that. :lol: You know at the end of the day when I think about it I say to myself I'd totally date her if I was straight or at the very least Bisexual. But No, I'm like totally 100% gay. It even extends to my friendships. For some reason I only have straight men as friends, my best friend is a straight guy as well.

Gay men on the other hand... I think it has something to do with me being in the gray area between masculinity and femininity, in short I'm neither in extremes. Gay men usually have a preference--- masculine, feminine. I think when they see me they have a hard time labeling me as such so they go for someone else who fits an easier stereotype and label.

It may also have something to do with me having a RBF (resting bitch face) and being dominant in person. Maybe some people find me intimidating. Women on the other hand find a dominant man attractive.

In any case what use do I have with a woman hitting on me. :eusa_doh: Other than the occasional guy friend asking me why I haven't dated so and so...

 

I am a victim of this jk jk, but Atleast girls find me attractive lolz.

Who knows maybe they just want a shota to mess with.

 

it's next to impossible that you're not going to be attracted to straight people and only gays. we don't have magical superpowers that comes with the territory.

 

I don't think it's possible to only be attractive to straight people, but not gay people. Everyone has their physical preferences, doesn't matter if they're straight or gay. If you feel that people are not attracted to you, is it possible that you are either pushing them away, introverted, or looking in the wrong places? I personally think everyone has several people who find them attractive. There are always partners available, you just have to find them. (*hug*)

I find that a lot of the women on EC are very good looking and I'm gay, but I can still appreciate a girl who has got it going on.

 

I think vice versa thing is more common, for example when straight guys hate short hair on girls... but as you see it all comes down to stereotypes like hair and etc.

In my opinion you don't have to worry about it, the right ones will love you just the way you are, I assure you.

 

Straight women and gay women are both women. Tastes vary, but there's really a lot of variety. Plenty of people wind up liking someone not the right orientation for them, anyway.

 

If your avatar is you, I think you're very attractive. There's proof itself that you're fearing things that you shouldn't be fearing.

If you're attractive, you're attractive. Regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, et. al.

 

No, it's not. There is someone who will find you attractive that is gay a well. Be at ease. BTW: many of us go through this thought process and worry about it.

 

If you're attractive to straight people, I can guarantee you that you'll be attractive to gay people as well.

 

Well like I said, I am very curious to see. =)

 

I am irresistible to everyone.