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Taking a breather from the "what's my sexuality" label mill.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by brainwashed, Aug 27, 2015.

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  1. brainwashed

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    To give myself space and time from labeling myself, and the emotions of doing so, I now say "I'm a sexually "null" person" until I'm able to gather experience to make a definitive analysis and determination (few).

    Do you think this non judgmental label would help you?
     
    #1 brainwashed, Aug 27, 2015
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    It wouldn't help me personally. I like to have things figured out. When questioning my sexuality I had the chance of always knowing I was attracted to guys. So just placing the "gay" label was a hard, but simple and accurate decision.

    You could put a temporary label you are comfortable with for the moment and as time goes decide if you should add or change anything. That's what I'd do.
     
    #2 andimon, Aug 27, 2015
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    People don't need labels. I don't usually use one either.
     
    #3 kyoujin, Aug 27, 2015
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