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How do you act around your crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ameryllis, Aug 27, 2015.

  1. Ameryllis

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    I'm typically unbelievably awkward and shy. xD
     
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    I treat them no differently then my friends i may be subconsciously kinder and caring towards them but other than that no different.
     
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    I'm normally lying on my bedroom floor watching whatever anime they're in.
     
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    I ace very caring and loving around my love and I do my best to express how much I love her as much as I can. :love:
     
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    I am a combination of very excitable and lost for words at the same time. My emotions tend to be written all over my face, and occasionally I struggle with eye contact as well as knowing what to say that doesn't sound awkward. I also feel a bit self-conscious in her presence.
     
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    I'm usually a shy person but around crushes I become super chatty and socially awkward! XD
     
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    I wouldn't know because I never really had a crush :confused: I never really thought about it, even. There probably were guys that I thought were cute but it never went more than that (like fantasizing about them or something).
    Also, there is a guy in my school around whom I feel uncomfortable and my voice changes sometimes when I talk to him and I get all confused, but don't get me wrong. I don't find the guy cute or hot, he is not my type at all and I definitely don't care about him one single bit. And I find this phenomen very interesting. I'm actually more intimidated by him than anything else, although I have no idea why...perhaps because I'm sure he suspects my sexuality, but so do some other people and I don't get these weird reactions when I'm near them.
    So yeah, as I said i never had a crush, except this strange feeling around this guy which is NOT a crush. :eusa_doh: Confusing a bit.
    So, is it normal if you have never had a crush and you're 17?
     
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    I act a little overexcited in large groups if I'm talking to her... I partly want her attention and I partly want to go hide. I just can't keep my eyes off of her... When she looks at me I either look away or widen my eyes a tiny bit and blush.

    However if she's staying over and I just have a couple friends at my house I just act normal... But freak out inwardly when she cuddles next to me while watching Buffy... And catch my breath when she leans her head against mine... Oh god this is awfulllll she is torturing me.
     
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    I'm really awkward (as usual) but attempt to make conversation XD
     
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    Awkward, say the wrong things, fumbleover my words...
    Embarrass myself somehow...
     
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    I would act the same way as I normally would around my family or friends. I may just go out of my way more when they need help. Otherwise I'm still my chatty self.
     
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    Me too :dry: And I blush a lot more than usual, and try to smile more to sort of hide my shyness. It sucks, because how will they notice me if I "hide away"?
     
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    Being a nerd, I always tell her loads of "fun facts" to try and impress her. I also tell terrible jokes that you'd find in a Christmas cracker; and I have a strange habit of running my fingers through my hair when I talk to crushes.

    Basically, I'm very awkward.
     
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    Depends on a few things...

    If I'm feeling particularly playful, you'll get the charm and gifts. But if I'm feeling rather content and relaxed, you'll get the wit and attention.

    I don't often meet people who make me stutter, though it has happened. Thankfully, I get over that quickly enough, about 2-3 seconds, and I make sure to not speak until I'm confident I won't stutter. But you have to be on a whole other level, if you're making me do that...

    If I give up time out of my mortal life, then consider yourself appreciated. But if I give up not only time, but money and interest, then consider yourself adored. Not many get to the adored level, but then again, you'd have to tickle my fancy majorly to even get there.

    All in all, I'm pretty likable. I hope!
     
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    So cute! I totally vouch for you guys and I don't even know you! xx

    Now how do I act? Like a star struck fan girl. Well.. I actually try my best to hide my feelings. I personally think I act kind of cute when I'm crushing on a girl. As strange as that may sound! :wink: x
     
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    Yup.
     
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    If you're anything other than yourself, you're either begging for them to like someone who isn't you or you're ruining your chances.

    Be yourself and show them what a bad motherfucker you are :thumbsup:
     
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    I realized I used to become more violent when I was shy. Now I become more touchy-feely, trying to initiate skin contact. And if it's a girl I wanna touch her hair. Yeeeeeeea.
     
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