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My Huge Sexuality Survey!

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  1. iiimee

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    Hey guys, Chase here. I have made a sort of survey, and a chart that includes all possible sexualities as far as I am aware- It's sort of an advanced Kinsey scale. It deals with both romantic and sexual attraction. Please look at my scale, then answer the questions below it. Also, for the trans people who are confused: I decided it would make sense to rank it by gender, and not sex, so don't feel pressured to say you're straight if you're a gay trans male or something like that. Thanks!

    X- Zero sexual or romantic attraction- asexual and aromantic.
    X.1- Asexual, but romantically 100% straight.
    X.2- Asexual, but with romantic lean for opposite gender.
    X.3- Asexual, but romantically fluid.
    X.4- Asexual, but with romantic lean for same gender
    X.5- Asexual, but romantically 100% gay.
    1- Sexually 100% straight, but aromantic.
    1.1- Sexually and romantically 100% straight.
    1.2- Sexually 100% straight. Romantically fluid with lean for opposite gender.
    1.3- Sexually 100% straight, but romantically fluid.
    1.4- Sexually 100% straight. Romantically fluid with lean for same gender.
    1.5- Sexually 100% straight. Romantically 100% gay.
    2- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Aromantic.
    2.1- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Romantically 100% straight.
    2.2- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Romantic lean for opposite gender.
    2.3- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Romantically fluid.
    2.4- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Romantic lean for same gender.
    2.5- Sexually fluid with lean for opposite gender. Romantically 100% gay.
    3- Sexually 100% fluid. Aromantic.
    3.1- Sexually fluid. Romantically 100% straight.
    3.2- Sexually fluid. Romantically fluid with lean for opposite gender.
    3.3- Sexually and romantically fluid.
    3.4- Sexually fluid. Romantically fluid with lean for same gender.
    3.5- Sexually fluid. Romantically 100% gay.
    4- Sexually fluid with lean for same gender. Aromantic.
    4.1- Sexually fluid with lean for same gender. Romantically 100% straight.
    4.2- Sexually fluid with lean for same gender. Romantic lean for opposite gender.
    4.3- Sexually fluid with lean for same gender. Romantically 100% fluid.
    4.4- Sexually and romantically fluid with lean for the same gender.
    4.5- Sexually fluid with lean for same gender. Romantically 100% gay.
    5- Sexually 100% gay. Aromantic.
    5.1- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically 100% straight.
    5.2- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically fluid with lean for opposite gender.
    5.3- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically fluid.
    5.4- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically fluid with lean for same gender.
    5.5- Sexually and romantically 100% gay.


    SURVEY QUESTIONS-
    1. Where on this list are you?
    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?

    ^ Sorry if some of these questions are personal, but I think this is an interesting and great discussion for us all to have. I shall respond to my own survey as well, if people participate.
     
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    5.5 - gay and gay... but I would like to see what heterosexual sex is like, if only for kicks and giggles.
     
  3. UnsureOfAll

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    5.4
    On Emmy closets? Probably 5.5
    I'd say 2.5
    I think everything listed is possible.
    I don't think it is. I think events can help you discover what it always has been by changing your perception.
     
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    2.3 for now? Maybe 2.4. Idk.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    I'm either a 4.4 or a 5.4, I'm not sure

    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    Probably around the same as me, I'm not sure. We're all different, that's what's great about this place :slight_smile:

    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    Probably 1.1

    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    Oooh, I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole.

    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    I'm not sure mine has changed much over time, no. I do believe it can be fluid, and for me, it sort of comes and goes in waves. If that makes sense.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    3.4
    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    I think most people are 2.2, 2.3, and 3.3.
    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    1.5 and 5.1
    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    None are impossible I think.
    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    I think romantic attractive is much more fluid than sexual attraction, though I think both can change to some degree over time, just on the basis humans are sexually fluid animals: that is my hypothesis anyway. By sexually fluid, I mean most of us have the nature to be so: that doesn't mean it is part of everyone's nature, or that people who have that nature will necessarily embrace it or even be aware of it unless something occurs that makes them more aware of it. I think mine has changed over time in the sense that I was never aware I could have feelings for girls until when I reached puberty, when I crushed on a bisexual girl. I knew I stared at girls long before that, but I had told myself it was admiration, despite the fact I had no desire to be like them: not that you can't admire somebody without wanting to be them. Still, it should've been obvious I liked both genders, but since romantically I connected more with males overall, I figured I only liked them. At one point in my life I would've said I was a 5.5, but now I think it's safe to say I am a 3.4.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    5.3- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically fluid.

    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    I'd say about 2.2

    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    X

    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    Any of those are possible and valid.

    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    I think sexuality is fluid. I'm not sure if mine changed or I was just in deep denial.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    X.5. It is a difficult one though.

    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    In terms of biology: 2.1
    What people would admit: 1.1
    On Empty Closets: 5.5

    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    All around: X

    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    1.5 and 5.1. Sounds too contradicting.

    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    Yes I do and mine does change from sexual to asexual.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    5.5 gay all the way! :slight_smile: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    3.4

    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit in this list?
    1.2 and 5.3

    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    Any things possible.

    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    Idk maybe. I think really what it was, was I didn't really know anything about being gay so that had to play a role in it.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you? 5.3
    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit? I think that is it most common for sexual orientation to at least partially match with romantic orientation.
    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list? I think that the least number of people are with polar opposite sexual and romantic orientations.
    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones? I don't think so.
    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time? I think that it depends on the person. Some people have more fluid sexualities than others. I don't think that mine has ever really changed.

    Cool scale. I like that it is more descriptive than the Kinsley. However, it still bothers me that non-binary genders are not represented.
     
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    5.4 seems about right.
     
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    5.2 or 5.3
     
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    4.4 sounds about right for me.
     
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    SURVEY QUESTIONS-
    1. Where on this list are you?
    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?

    I'm posting this again, because most people seem to have ignored that part of what I was saying...
     
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    1.) 5.4
    2.) I would think most people on this site are 4.4, 5.4, or 5.5 (just my opinion)
    3.) I really don't know enough non-straight people to answer this, but I would say 2.5.
    4.) I honestly don't think so. This world is filled with so many people, I am sure there is someone out there who can identify with all of these.
    5.) As someone said before, I also believe romantic attraction is more fluid than sexual attraction. I have always been sexually attracted to guys and never girls, but I think I have only been romantically attracted to girls because of society's norms. I have been romantically attracted to girls and sometimes I have no clue why, but I have never been sexually attracted to them.
     
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    I cannot categorise myself. I am indifferent towards gender, rather only attracted to what I consider beautiful. Which tends to be transvestites and androgynous males. I suppose that makes me 4.4? I don't really like calling myself "fluid", as it implies not having much standards.


    I don't see the need to categorise myself anyways.
    As for your questions, it all depends on the person. For some, sexuality is fluid, for others, it's solid and selective. There will always be an exception to every generalisation, and every assumption. I think that is one of the things that make humans unique from other species. The potential for extreme diversity.
    On this website, I believe there is a slight majority of exclusive homosexuals.
     
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    1. Where on this list are you?
    The closest is 3.3- Sexually and romantically fluid

    2. Where do you think most people on this list fit?
    On EC? 5.5- Sexually and romantically 100% gay.
    Worldwide? 1.1- Sexually and romantically 100% straight

    3. Where do you think the least number of people fit on this list?
    On EC? X- Zero sexual or romantic attraction- asexual and aromantic
    Worldwide? X- Zero sexual or romantic attraction- asexual and aromantic

    4. Do you think it's impossible to be some of the things on this list? If so, which ones?
    Yes, maybe I'm just being an idiot, but I find it very difficult to imagine someone being "1.5- Sexually 100% straight. Romantically 100% gay." or "5.1- Sexually 100% gay. Romantically 100% straight."

    5. Do you think sexuality is fluid? If so, do you think yours has changed at all over time?
    Yes, I don't think I'd use the word "fluid" but many bisexuals experience change within those sexual preferences, and not in my case.
     
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    1.) I scored about 5.3 :3

    2.) Where I believe most people fit would really depend on their sexuality, for example in they're bi they may fall somewhere around 2-3ish, though I'm not sure. I would assume (based on my results) that most gay people would score somewhere around my results.

    3.) In my opinion, I feel the most uncommon result might be x, the very first one, just because I would assume most people would have some sort of romantic attraction to someone, even if they never truly find that person and it's very mild.

    4.) I believe it's quite unlikely for someone to score x, but not impossible.

    5.) Yes, I don't believe anyone can be 'fully' a certain sexuality, and if that's the case, it's probably not very common. For instance, I identify as a lesbian, though I have had crushes on guys in the past (pure romantic) and for a while, I thought I may be bisexual. Some people who are my sexuality might identify as bisexual based on the romantic crushes for the opposite gender, but I feel like I would really only be interested in having affairs with someone of the same gender, because sex might be awkward if only one partner enjoys it, and I would probably never be able to have the same love for my partner if I do not love them both sexually and romantically.