When did you realize that you were gay/bi/trans ect? I was 17 when I realized that I am trans, still figuring out orientation.
Realized I was a transguy within the last 12 months. Not sure when the exact moment was, but it took me a long time of thinking about it before I could finally admit it to myself. I'm still not entirely sure on orientation, though, and honestly, since I have no desire whatsoever in dating, I don't really care how long it takes me to figure it out.
I was chatting with my gay friend and his bi friend the other day. He said he figured it out "late": ten years old. Better than her, she said: she was twelve when she figured it out. Now, I thought I was gay when I was twelve and it's all gotten more shaky from there. :T Guess I'm just slow?
It's hard for me to pinpoint a single moment. I had my first sexual experience with another woman when I was 15, and I went on to date both genders after that. I always considered myself bisexual until recently. I am now 23 years old and finally realizing how gay I am! Looking back though, there are several moments throughout my childhood that scream, "girl, you're so gay!!!"
I am having more and more of those moments as the days tick by... I've started just laughing about it now! HOW DID I NOT NOTICE.
LOL!!! I was just talking with a friend about hot teachers we had in school and I brought up this GORGEOUS teacher I had in sixth grade, and how I became weak in the knees when I found out she was a lezzi. It didn't dawn on me until a week ago that that might be an indicator that I'm a lesbian. It took me 12 years for that one to click!
I had a gorgeous teacher in 4th grade.. She was CUTE. And when I started really questioning my sexuality the memory of me always looking at her/getting giddy inside came flooding back. Unfortunately she was married to a man. But wow you were lucky! Gorgeous AND a lesbian? Nice! Not surprised though! All us bi/lesbian women are cute!
First inklings of realization that I'm not straight was when I was around 14. As for when I started to wonder about my gender that was a few years later.
