Ever had a crush on somebody who picked on you?

Yeah, I used to like one of my "friends" that picked on me and told jokes about my sexuality and called me a loser. Luckily I got over him real quick.

 

Nope. I hated the guys who picked on me, and some of them I still hate. I know I shouldn't, but hate is a hard thing to shake, especially because I'm talking about people who made my life a living hell.

 

It's actually quite common for people to be attracted to assholes. You feel a sense of reward for pleasing someone who mistreats you and you just keep getting drawn in. As for a crush, I would say I'm more likely to have a crush on someone who's nice to me than mean to me. However, I think (admittedly) a mean boy can be pretty attractive.

 

Someone picked on me once but I put him in a choke hold. I never liked him and I cant think of anyone else like that I liked

 

Yes, multiple times.... My first ever guy crush was an absolute jerkwad towards me in 5th grade. He had the cutest ass though and really nice blond hair. I was really confused by that. Then he left after 5th grade, and 6th grade was quiet.

In 7th grade, there was this new guy that came to the school. He threatened to beat me up a few times, but he had really nice black hair with that 90's layered cut and these puppy dog blue eyes. He was a skinny twink really with a small start of an outline of a six pack. He treated the girls like crap, and they would talk crap about him. Then, when he came around, they would start talking to him sweetly and flirting with him. In gym class, I would check him out all the time when we changed. He always wore really nice boxers. Then he did this sideways pull up on the jungle gym when we were coming back after doing a run outside. His body angled in such a way that I could see up his shorts without even trying. The other people in the class were on the other side, and I could totally see his balls up his gym and boxer shorts. Got my own personal show. In 8th grade, he got expelled for shattering the huge mirror in the boys' bathroom by the sinks. I saw a picture of him now, and he is bald, looks trashy, and has 2 kids. But I would always look at yearbook pictures of him after he left and of course could never get rid of the jungle gym memory.

Neither of these guys picked on me because of my sexuality I don't think. It was the cool thing in my class to pick on me.

 

No I have never had a crush on guys who picked on me. I had crushes on guys who pretty much made me feel like a queen by making me do things I wouldn't normally do. If a guy tells me to get up and play sports, I try to impress him by trying my hardest but I always embarrassed myself because out of everyone I was the worst. Also the cartoon is funny, (hehe) it's so funny.

 

I had a crush on this girl when I was about eight. Since I chased her around the playground she started to hate me. I don't think she had any clue about my sexuality because I was already known as a freak. I've chased around many girls, but everyone thought I did that because I was weird or jealous. No one thought it was related to my sexuality.

 

Not really, HP.

I some cases, I knew that they were good looking, acknowledged that to myself, and that was about it.

Yeah, biguy8, it's funny how things turn out. The guy who was voted "best looking" senior year of high school still looks great today. As for college people, it's really dispersed. I recently saw a professional photo of that guy who was about 5'7" and in the year behind me in college, who I could overhear more girls talking about than any other guy and who I've mentioned on here in a thread about height, and asked myself, "What happened?"

I generally disliked and probably still dislike people who were uncool to me. I can think of about two exceptions where I met these people later and they acted in a completely different manner toward me, meaning a positive one. I thought it was cool and we were friends for a while.

 

In a playful context, I'll tolerate it. In fact, I have an affinity for gentle teasing and banter.

Otherwise, treating me like shit isn't going to turn me on, it's going to piss me off.

 

My first major crush would tease me and we'd exchange banter, sometimes about sexuality. He knew I liked it and liked it too - it really turned me on. I've had many a dream about him.

 

There's a difference between playful teasing and treating one like shit.
Do I like people who tease me? Yeah, I don't mind, it can be funny sometimes as long as they don't mean harm. My girlfriend and I do it a lot. But when somebody's mean and treats me like I'm nothing, I feel really sad and worthless...and I can do nothing but hate them.

 

I had but I stop myself from further assuming since I really do not want to expect too much.

 

Yes. I was stupid as f*ck.

 

No, I have too much diginity for that. I have no interest in arseholes.

 

Nah, the only thing I felt for anyone that picked on me was an intense desire to punch them in the face.

 

Nope. I don't mind joking around, but If someone seriously tries to pick on me, then I want them to drop dead. However, I must admit I enjoyed insulting my bullies, and seeing them angry. And I loved getting MUCH better test results than my bullies. You can't say my bullies were the only ones with... issues. Maybe we did have some sort of weird "relationship" going on!

 

There was a kid in 6th and 7th grade that always talked to me like a dog and made fun of how clumsy I was. I don't know what the hell I was (metaphorically) smoking, but I had a crush on him up untill the end of 8th grade (I was in denial at the time, so I dismissed all sexual and romantic fantasies as a "phase").

 

Thankfully not