I saw where a thread like this was made for women, so I thought I would make one for the guys on here. I myself have some degree of social anxiety, and hope that this wouldn't be seen as a turn off. It's not as bad as it used to be, but I still suffer from a milder form of it. I really am a fun person once you get to know me. I just hope that this wouldn't be a deal breaker.
Depends how bad it was and how much it affected them. I have it too, but it doesn't get in the way too much.
I guess it depends on the degree of anxiety and if its just socializing in general, or just certain topics/situations. If it doesn't lead to constant breakdowns or anything I'd be fine with it.
I have dated a man with social anxiety, and to be honest, it usually doesn't make too much of a difference, I mean, sure, he didn't really want to go out to like a public pool and stuff, but he was completely cool and down to earth with just the two of us, and around family. Then again, I suppose it would depend on the extent, like if the guy has a panic attack the second he sees someone walking toward him on the street, well then maybe not. idk
Well the thing is, I had it, badly, in the past and still do have it to an extent, so if I date someone with a significant amount of social anxiety it means that we would have a common weakness. While that's not a dealbreaker in itself, and I'm sure I could relate to them much better if they had it, I'd prefer someone who could cover me when it comes to, going out in public, answering the phone, ordering food and other stuff I'd rather not do. In return I'd like to be strong for my partner in whichever areas they're weak in. With personalities and skills that compliment each other, we'll get more done.
It depends on how bad it is, however, I'm not really social myself so I think that we could find a way to accommodate and both be satisfied.
I'm pretty socially anxious, so I think I'd be able to relate. If they have severe social anxiety, then it might be more work; but it would in no way be a deal breaker. I know I wouldn't mind avoiding some more crowded or stressful situations sometimes so my partner would be more comfortable.
Agorophobic(sp)? No. However, I have anxiety. Usually unless a traumatic event has occurred, I can deal with it. That said, I can't deal with big crowds and a bunch of new people. I am understanding regarding anxiety as long as it doesn't cripple someone's life. Really, honesty and quality time are the biggest things for me in a relationship.
I definitely would, having suffered from social anxiety myself I would be able to relate on what he's going through.
Nope I've struggled with social anxiety for many years and dating someone else with it could potentially reverse all of the progress I've made. Not woth it to risk it
