Jealousy/envy thread.

Why can't I look like Andy Beirsack? I'd really like to look like Andy Beirsack. Like please? Pleeeaaaaase. I just wanna look like Andy Beirsack.

And if I can't look like him can't I at least marry him?

 

I get jealous when a guy has a cute girlfriend. I'm like ''What does HE have that I don't?'' I will never understand this! I'm an attractive girl and can pick other women up just as well as a ''good looking'' guy but like.. I still get so jealous!

Other then that.. I only get jealous if someone wins more money gambling then me.

 

I usually get really aggressive when some one gets close and friendly with my crush.
XAX

 

Not really. I tend to be genuinely happy for other people's success. I work in a very competitive work environment and other people in that environment tend to find it very frustrating that I just don't really look at things that way.

 

I feel jealousy and envy all the time, at women for the fact they are women and I am not, at society for being as it is, at others for not having the health conditions I do, I feel it all the time.

 

1. My health conditions which are quite a few...

2. The fact that I am fat and did not grow up that way.

 

When people look better than I do.

 

An authentic penis :roflmao: Sorry I can't help it! It's the first thing pop up in my mind!

Sometimes I experience what I call 'irrational jealousy', if possible, I'll just turn off the trigger and not dwell on it.

 

I'm a little envious of people with a great girlfriend/wife and sometimes a pet, a nice family and happy career. Basically a life that I kind of want to lead in the future.

I also tend to be a bit envious of men for various reasons at times, but that's another story altogether.

 

I get jealous of new members of staff if they seem to be doing a really good job and are receiving compliments for their work. That was me when i first started - getting praise from everyone and hearing that others like me. When it's someone else getting praise - my jealousy emerges!

Besides that, I typically get jealous of girls with nice boyfriends. Especially if it's a guy i meet at first and think "he's nice" then find out he's got some girlfriend or wife or there's some woman that he's interested in and I just think "She's a bitch."

 

I'm actually really envying one of my teachers at the moment. She's so collected, at peace with herself and combines passion with an ability never to become riled. On top of that, she has such a lovely lack of concern with materialism.

I just really want that sense of calmness and that lack of petty ambitions. Although I know I need to spend half a lifetime learning and that it requires a great deal of mental strength and maturity to reach that level, I do envy that, for all the fruitlessness of envy.

Jealousy isn't so much something I feel often.

 

Jealousy, yes, often. Envy is different, but I do envy people who are happy & comfortable with who they are. I envy people who don't struggle so much with problems like social anxiety & such, & who are not as emotionally fragile as I am. I envy that a lot, & I hate it. I guess in a way I envy most people I know, thinking about it.

 

When I'm feeling envious of other people, it's usually because I'm thinking about mental health or I'm remembering that I'm a trans guy. However, other people don't get to be me, and I don't want to be someone else, so it balances out.

Hell, I'm in good physical health and I don't remember the last time I was sick. Sometimes I feel bad when I see other people struggle with their health. I usually manage to shake that feeling off quickly, because I realise it doesn't solve anything.

I must admit I felt jealous when my ex-girlfriend (when we were still dating) told me that she fancied Till Lindemann. My teenage brain thought "She obviously likes masculine guys, and I'm never going to be anywhere near that masculine, so my life is over!" She was quick to reassure me that cute guys are fine too.

 

-When people I have a crush on like other people

-Also to some extent, people who date and have steady relationships. It's not that I'm bitter about it, it's just something I've never been able to do yet because I've never really liked anyone enough so it's something I want

-Also when my friends are really ambitious and motivated about school and getting ready for college. Because for me my future's basically a big question mark right now and I haven't been very motivated. I wish I was, but I'm not.

-And Michelle Obama's arms honestly haha Whenever I build arm muscle it makes my arms just look bigger and flubbier. Tell me your secrets Michelle!!

 

I envy happy people.
Happy couples to be exact.
Why can't I have someone to be happy with?

I also envy pretty people.
Why can't I be pretty too..

I just realized I'm ugly and sad, and that made me laugh a little.

 

I envy:

- couples (not that it's something I need or even want but that I wouldn't ever be able to have that if I wanted; I'm not allowed, per the universe's order.)

- People who are photogenic(I despise every picture ever of me, past/present/future because I take the worst pictures in the universe and beyond)

- People who have family that is supportive of their gender/orientation.

 

Whenever I watch porn, I envy the bottom for being able to enjoy the large penis that the top has.

 

I envy people who are intelligent and successful, and also people who are confident and don't have trouble meeting new people.

 

I am jealous of those who "have all the luck".
I envy those who can dance well.