Me: Hey Dude, Will you marry me? Him: I would if it was legal! Uncle SAM: PWNED! Me: :evil: :tantrum: Uncle SAM: You're still not marrying him! Me: Oh Yeah! We will move to Canada! Good Ol' Canada: Welcome. Me: (!) Him: :eusa_danc Us: (*hug*) (*hug*)
Well I already have proposed once, and it was very traditional... Out to a nice restaurant for dinner, and before desert got down on one knee beside my wife and gave a bit of a 'speal' about how much I loved her, and simply asked her if she would marry me - and handed her the ring. What was perhaps a little unconventional about it was the fact that we had been to a funeral that day. I had hummed and hawed about when I should do this, and we'd been to the funeral of my good friends mother, who passed away from cancer in her early 50s, and I decided that night that life is too short to wait for the 'perfect time' to do something. My friends parents were so in love, and had so many plans for their retirement that they didn't get to do, and that inspired me to not wait another day. I suppose that's a lesson that can be applied to a lot of other situations as well...
i asked my gf to be my life partner in a park on the tailgate of my truck--- i did it in a card..while she read the card i was holding the ring i had for her---
That's hot. I don't really know how I would ask him, but I know that Georgia won't allow gay people to marry for a long time. So I would take us back to New Jersey, which is going to allow gay marriage very soon, and get married.
I'd plan the whole day, completely focused around my prospective spouse ^^ leading up to a romantic evening. Then, when the mood is right, I'd tell them why they mean so much to me, and that I want to spend the rest of my life with them ^^
i can just picture myself planning out something awesome and it totally goes wrong. sooo...i'm pretty sure it might just be spur of the moment. but that COULD be romantic in a weird way...depends on your perspective:icon_wink
I'm a huge hopeless romantic kind of guy, so I'll probably be planning something all week to try to make it fantastic, only to probably to have it gone wrong or something at the las minute, But it would take a lot of planning for me if that day ever come.
If I were afforded the opportunity I would probably take him to this bridge after a walk and pop the question on the bridge.
I thought about this question quite a bit. And I have two equally appealing ideas for me. First, I have always been partial to the big screens at major sporting events. It may seem silly, but I have thought about for a long time. My other perspective is that I am Messianic Jewish. Which, according to my position in that arena, I believe in a "courtship" that culminates in marriage. So, the "courtship" is a specified amount of time with specificied things to occur (ex: talk about the various topics in any longterm relationship - sex, kids, money, religion, etc.). The culmination is marriage. The decision to have a courtship is discussed and mutually decided on - so there is not specific moment. Just some thoughts..... wtinal
Well, IF I do then this is my ideal... Here is some background and situations: We've been together for a long time, we are about to go sleep at night, at home with no lights but moonlight, and it's a quiet night... Me: *Looking at my lover's back of head* Him: *Toss and turned to me and open his eyes* Me: ...... Him: ...... Me: ......Will you marry me? Him: ......*Just gives me quick kiss* Me: ......Thanks*Smile* Him: *Join his hand to mine* Me: *Cuddle him in my arms and give him a kiss* .......And both fall into sleep. *Sigh* Hopefully, that'll happen someday:dry:
