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Doesn't it suck when....

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SmileItsNicole, Jan 6, 2009.

  1. SmileItsNicole

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    Doesn't it suck when one of your friends know that your bisexual and that you used to like them, yet they hit on you when they're straight? Since you end up liking them again for nothing! :eusa_doh:
     
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    Story of my life. I'm in love with my 'straight' best friend and I can't help it! But he doesn't know im Bi so I can't say hes doing it on purpose..
     
  3. SmileItsNicole

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    Yeah sucks right??? haha she knows i 'used' to like her though. I kinda never stopped really... Do you plan on telling him ever? You dont wanna miss out on what could be :slight_smile:
     
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    Well, he might know already, depending if my friends blabbed...but soon.

    I doubt he'll ever recipricate the feelings though, and it hurts.
     
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    Oh Christ, do I know what you mean.

    I'll just say this.

    I could write a book on my social experience with people who habitually hit on gay/bi members of the same sex. 99% of the time, they're "kinda not straight", "not completely sure" and definitely NOT worth your time.
     
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    Ugh yeah i know what you mean. It might work out though, i guess you'll find out. But the four times i told a girl that i've liked her she basically stopped talking to me hahah idk i got used to it. But then the girl i like now, our friendship is even closer. She confuses me.
     
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    yeahhhh your probably right..... but its so hard to move on!
     
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    My friend Joey knows that I'm gay, and he keeps play hitting on me but, sometimes he takes it way to far.
     
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    UGH, YES.

    i'm sorry and sad to hear there are others out there in the same pitiful boat as me. good luck. personally it's been fun to play with the thought of the possibility of something maybe happening, but i'm leaning towards the fact it's never actually going to happen--given the process it's taken me to "come to terms" with myself...and her family.

    good luck with your friendship, i do not discourage that.
     
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    One of the stories of my life.

    It sucks deeply, but eventually you heal. I guess...
     
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    Well I Have Never Had Feelings For A Straight Friend But I Have For A Stranger Who Was In One Of My College Classes. She And I Talked All The Time But We Never Talked About Sexual Orientation Or Relationships Before So I Never Actually Knew Her Sexuality And She Never Knew Mine.

    I Had The Biggest Crush On Her, I Would Look At Her Picture Every Night And In Class I Just Wanted To Be Close To Her, I Liked Her So Much And I Had No Idea Why. But We Don't Talk Anymore And My Feelings For Her Have Almost Completely Faded, Although If I Saw Her In Person Again It Would Probably Come Back.

    I Guess I Will Never Know If She Liked Me Or Not, I Am Just Glad I Had The Experience :]
     
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    My friend Rach always tells people we're lesbian lovers and she is constantly in my "personal bubble". She walks around me naked and it drives me crazy. She knows that I like girls.... even knows that I like her, but I swear she does it to kill me.
     
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    Okay, I know this may be a little inappropriate to point out here, but it's driving me crazy. o-O

    Why do you capitalize the first letter of every word?