OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

cromig · 9th Jan 2009, 12:00 PM

right quick some backround info so this story makes sense.
-my parents are mormon
-they think im straight
-im more for guys than girls... if she blows me away then fine but im not going to go look for her
-i take meds cuz im bipolar
-i have smoked somethings... i hate this one

ok so here it goes. this morning i decided i was gonna double up on the pills. ive never tryed this much before, but... ok so i also went off for lunch... this is never really good. AND THEN i get home from school. my dad casually walked upstairs and sits down. i thought that he was gonna say something bout lunch or the fight i had with my mom in the am.
nope he was like "if you have sex........" i was laughing so hard. he kept using "she"
i didnt really like that too much, especially cuz i was txting my boyfriend at the same time as him talking

i never would expect my dad to say this maybe my mom. this is histarical too me.

-Michael- · 9th Jan 2009, 12:05 PM

Awh bless him.
:')

9th Jan 2009, 12:14 PM

he sounds like a cool father

-Michael- · 9th Jan 2009, 12:20 PM

I remember when my dad tried this talk....
I knew more than he did...
He learnt a few things that day.

**Lexington** · 9th Jan 2009, 12:21 PM

And you TEXTED while he was giving you the talk?

(shakes head)

Lex

Techcompu2 · 9th Jan 2009, 02:09 PM

^^ good point Lex.

Swamp56 · 9th Jan 2009, 05:11 PM

Lol

My only question is..."Why would you double up on meds???"

lolz · 9th Jan 2009, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lexington

And you TEXTED while he was giving you the talk?

(shakes head)

Lex

I have to agree.. I bet your dad felt a little awkward, and you not paying your full attention probably didnt help..

cromig · 9th Jan 2009, 06:08 PM

yeah i know i could have been nicer. it was just i didnt want to talk to him right then... and about sex!?! no, i know his mind and heart were in the right place, i just wasnt open to talking to him about it. and i mean he came to me. i was watching tv and already txting before hecame up.

beckyg · 9th Jan 2009, 07:06 PM

Go tell your Dad that you appreciate the conversation and that you are sorry for not giving him your full attention. It'll mean alot to him. Remember you are going to have to come out to him someday. You want him to listen to you, don't you?

George · 9th Jan 2009, 07:28 PM

My parents never gave me the birds and the bees talk.. I ended up researching and learning it myself.

BlakeHarmony · 10th Jan 2009, 07:38 PM

We start sex-ed in gr 4, so there was never any need for "the talk"...

Aries · 10th Jan 2009, 09:24 PM

Lol My Parents Have Been Devorced Since My Birth And My Father Wasn't Really In My Life Until I Turned 12. My Mother Talked To Me About Sex Every Year From The Age Of 7 And Until I Moved In With My Father At The Age Of 15, I Never Heard About Sex After That Until After I Had First Had Sex. All My Father Could Say At First Was "I Am So Disappointed In You!" But He Got Over That Right Away, Then The Next Night He Gave Me "The Talk!" He Said That All Guys Want Is To Get Into My Pants Lol. He Also Told Me That I Shouldn't Only Have Sex With One Person, He Said I Should Have Sex With As Many People I Can Before I Get Married (To Figure Out What I Like, Not To Become A Slut And Get AIDS)... Well Anyways He Said That Once I Am Married There Is No Going Back And What I Have IS What I Get For The Rest Of My Life.

It Was Weird. But Yeah I Think You Should Tell Your Father That You Were Sorry For Your Lack Of Interest In His Advice, It Would Really Come In Handy When You Feel It's Time To Come Out To Him. And Also, You Might Want To Go To Him Come Out To Him Before He Comes To You, It Will Show Him That You Are Not Afraid To Tell Him Anything And Keep You In The "Trust Circle!!"

Haha

Fun Fun

9th Jan 2009, 12:00 PM	#1
cromig Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: everyone now!!!!! Location: North Carolina Age: 21 Posts: 86 Join Date: Jan 2009	OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation right quick some backround info so this story makes sense. -my parents are mormon -they think im straight -im more for guys than girls... if she blows me away then fine but im not going to go look for her -i take meds cuz im bipolar -i have smoked somethings... i hate this one ok so here it goes. this morning i decided i was gonna double up on the pills. ive never tryed this much before, but... ok so i also went off for lunch... this is never really good. AND THEN i get home from school. my dad casually walked upstairs and sits down. i thought that he was gonna say something bout lunch or the fight i had with my mom in the am. nope he was like "if you have sex........" i was laughing so hard. he kept using "she" i didnt really like that too much, especially cuz i was txting my boyfriend at the same time as him talking i never would expect my dad to say this maybe my mom. this is histarical too me.

9th Jan 2009, 12:05 PM	#2
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation Awh bless him. :')

9th Jan 2009, 12:14 PM	#3
Urman Guest Posts: n/a	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation he sounds like a cool father

9th Jan 2009, 12:20 PM	#4
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation I remember when my dad tried this talk.... I knew more than he did... He learnt a few things that day.

9th Jan 2009, 12:21 PM	#5
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation And you TEXTED while he was giving you the talk? (shakes head) Lex

9th Jan 2009, 02:09 PM	#6
Techcompu2 EC Addict Full Member Gender: ♂ Orientation: ♂+♂=♥♥♥ Out Status: Most people, but I still activly hide it from some Location: Tennessee Age: 19 Posts: 659 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation ^^ good point Lex. __________________ "C'mon, Cody. You're acting like an angry evil mutated chipmunk that just had it's sword stolen." "If a fudpucker could puck fud, how much fud could a fudpucker puck if a fudpucker could puck fud."

9th Jan 2009, 05:11 PM	#7
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation Lol My only question is..."Why would you double up on meds???" __________________

9th Jan 2009, 06:08 PM	#9
cromig Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: everyone now!!!!! Location: North Carolina Age: 21 Posts: 86 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation yeah i know i could have been nicer. it was just i didnt want to talk to him right then... and about sex!?! no, i know his mind and heart were in the right place, i just wasnt open to talking to him about it. and i mean he came to me. i was watching tv and already txting before hecame up.

9th Jan 2009, 07:06 PM	#10
beckyg PFLAG Mom Community Liaison Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation Go tell your Dad that you appreciate the conversation and that you are sorry for not giving him your full attention. It'll mean alot to him. Remember you are going to have to come out to him someday. You want him to listen to you, don't you? __________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks

9th Jan 2009, 07:28 PM	#11
George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation My parents never gave me the birds and the bees talk.. I ended up researching and learning it myself.

10th Jan 2009, 07:38 PM	#12
BlakeHarmony EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: queer Out Status: friends, parents, sibs, (nearly) anyone who asks Location: Calgary Posts: 895 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation We start sex-ed in gr 4, so there was never any need for "the talk"... __________________ Let's eat, Grandpa. Let's eat Grandpa. Punctuation saves lives! "I would rather sit on a pumpkin and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion" Henry David Thoreau

10th Jan 2009, 09:24 PM	#13
Aries Wish I Was A Cupcake O.o Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Everyone Who Cares! O.o Location: Riverside, California Age: 24 Posts: 112 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: OMG my dad just tryed having that conversation Lol My Parents Have Been Devorced Since My Birth And My Father Wasn't Really In My Life Until I Turned 12. My Mother Talked To Me About Sex Every Year From The Age Of 7 And Until I Moved In With My Father At The Age Of 15, I Never Heard About Sex After That Until After I Had First Had Sex. All My Father Could Say At First Was "I Am So Disappointed In You!" But He Got Over That Right Away, Then The Next Night He Gave Me "The Talk!" He Said That All Guys Want Is To Get Into My Pants Lol. He Also Told Me That I Shouldn't Only Have Sex With One Person, He Said I Should Have Sex With As Many People I Can Before I Get Married (To Figure Out What I Like, Not To Become A Slut And Get AIDS)... Well Anyways He Said That Once I Am Married There Is No Going Back And What I Have IS What I Get For The Rest Of My Life. It Was Weird. But Yeah I Think You Should Tell Your Father That You Were Sorry For Your Lack Of Interest In His Advice, It Would Really Come In Handy When You Feel It's Time To Come Out To Him. And Also, You Might Want To Go To Him Come Out To Him Before He Comes To You, It Will Show Him That You Are Not Afraid To Tell Him Anything And Keep You In The "Trust Circle!!" Haha Fun Fun __________________

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