right quick some backround info so this story makes sense. -my parents are mormon -they think im straight -im more for guys than girls... if she blows me away then fine but im not going to go look for her -i take meds cuz im bipolar -i have smoked somethings... i hate this one ok so here it goes. this morning i decided i was gonna double up on the pills. ive never tryed this much before, but... ok so i also went off for lunch... this is never really good. AND THEN i get home from school. my dad casually walked upstairs and sits down. i thought that he was gonna say something bout lunch or the fight i had with my mom in the am. nope he was like "if you have sex........" i was laughing so hard. he kept using "she" i didnt really like that too much, especially cuz i was txting my boyfriend at the same time as him talking i never would expect my dad to say this maybe my mom. this is histarical too me.:icon_bigg
I remember when my dad tried this talk.... I knew more than he did... He learnt a few things that day.
I have to agree.. I bet your dad felt a little awkward, and you not paying your full attention probably didnt help..
yeah i know i could have been nicer. it was just i didnt want to talk to him right then... and about sex!?! no, i know his mind and heart were in the right place, i just wasnt open to talking to him about it. and i mean he came to me. i was watching tv and already txting before hecame up.
Go tell your Dad that you appreciate the conversation and that you are sorry for not giving him your full attention. It'll mean alot to him. Remember you are going to have to come out to him someday. You want him to listen to you, don't you?
My parents never gave me the birds and the bees talk.. I ended up researching and learning it myself.
Lol My Parents Have Been Devorced Since My Birth And My Father Wasn't Really In My Life Until I Turned 12. My Mother Talked To Me About Sex Every Year From The Age Of 7 And Until I Moved In With My Father At The Age Of 15, I Never Heard About Sex After That Until After I Had First Had Sex. All My Father Could Say At First Was "I Am So Disappointed In You!" But He Got Over That Right Away, Then The Next Night He Gave Me "The Talk!" He Said That All Guys Want Is To Get Into My Pants Lol. He Also Told Me That I Shouldn't Only Have Sex With One Person, He Said I Should Have Sex With As Many People I Can Before I Get Married (To Figure Out What I Like, Not To Become A Slut And Get AIDS)... Well Anyways He Said That Once I Am Married There Is No Going Back And What I Have IS What I Get For The Rest Of My Life. It Was Weird. But Yeah I Think You Should Tell Your Father That You Were Sorry For Your Lack Of Interest In His Advice, It Would Really Come In Handy When You Feel It's Time To Come Out To Him. And Also, You Might Want To Go To Him Come Out To Him Before He Comes To You, It Will Show Him That You Are Not Afraid To Tell Him Anything And Keep You In The "Trust Circle!!" Haha Fun Fun :icon_wink
