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"Bisexuals Women Hate Men"

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by AvatarRachel, Oct 6, 2015.

  1. AvatarRachel

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    I really don't understand that stereotype. If it was lesbians hate men, I would kind of understand it, but bisexuals? Most bisexual women date men? Wut? :confused:
     
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    You know, I've never heard that one before! It certainly seems a kind of...contradictory idea...
     
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    It exists
    And I would get annoyed if I understood it
     
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    Also never heard of it.
     
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    Never heard that one before.
     
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    I am a bisexual woman and I do hate some men, but not because they are men. I hate them because they are assholes -- just as women can be, too.

    But this, the thread topic, is referring to a sexuality sense. I think the logic here is, bisexuals are "choosing" to be with the same gender, and that the reason they are "choosing" to like/be with women is because of that old classic "I can't find me a good man!" mentality.

    This remark is often times used in a ridiculously dumb psychological sense, too. It can be to shame the bisexual or it can protect the ego of the man. It isn't because he may not be compatible with her, it's because she hasn't had the Miracle Dick -- the one penis that will make her realize the error of her woman-loving ways! But alas, if only he had been there one bad boyfriend/husband sooner, she would have seen the light.

    Can I get a semen amen?






    I'm in a really good mood, LOL.
     
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    I'm not meaning it in a way that I think that you can choose to be bisexual, I know you can't. I'm just saying that the people who believe that stereotype probably do, and if they do, why bisexuality? I mean, in their little non-existent world where they can choose their own sexuality, why, in their imaginary world, do they "choose" to be attracted to men as well?
     
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    I dont know why people cant just learn to hate everyone equally.
     
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    Not saying the stereotype is true, but I think It's been proven that women who are attracted to men are more likely to hate them due to more world experience and sexist power dynamics that sometimes crop up in relationships. The same is reverse for women- Straight men are much more likely to be misogynist than gay men are.

    All of the "man-haters" I personally know in my life are all straight women. I don't know of any queer women who hate men.
     
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    Maybe the stereotype built off of the stereotype that all men ask women for a three way. I don't know, that's just the first thing that came to mind. I know many bisexual women who don't hate men. I don't know, maybe some do but I would see that as more of an issues that's snowballed with other issues as to why they hate men.
     
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    No, we don't hate men...
     
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    That's a new one to me.
     
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    Never heard that assertion. Where have you heard it (since you seem to believe you have)?

    It makes no sense whatsoever. In general, I would say that I find it impossible to be sexually attracted to someone I hate. So for me "I am bisexual" implies "I do not hate men."
     
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    Wow, never heard that one. Maybe it's an extension of the lesbians all hate men thingy.
     
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    Considering they suffer from sexual abuse at the hands of men in greater numbers than lesbians or straight women, it would be totally justified.
     
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    I don't even know where any stereotype comes from. I don't believe it
     
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    No we don't hate men … where did you heard that??
     
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    Since when is "lesbians hate men" not a stereotype? And I'm gonna have to agree with the people saying that they've never heard this [about bi women] before.
     
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    doesn't make sense. If they are bisexual, they should be atracted to men not hating them
     
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    I've heard it multiple places

    ---------- Post added 7th Oct 2015 at 05:39 PM ----------

    I'm not saying you do, I am a bisexual and I don't. I'm just wondering why people think that it's true.