Is IT NOrmal?

Sure it is! People just experience things at different stages on their lives. There's probably more virgins then you'd expect, only that they're not really that vocal about it. lol

 

inb4 virginity is a tool of the patriarchy/society.

I find the word "virgin" useful as a reference point. That's about it.

As for me, I'm 29 years old and a virgin. I have not kissed anybody on the lips, touched genitals, or been naked with somebody in an affectionate/sexual context. In fact, I only just cuddled last Fall, if that means anything.

 

*Raises hand*

 

Technical virginity "all the way" i was like 24
other stuff was about 19
I consider myself pretty much a nun xD

 

Well... I'm 16 and have never had a date in my life. Every girl I've ever liked hated my guts, and talked shit about me behind my back. I don't see myself lending my heart out easily, and sex is something I reserve for love. Sooo...you're not alone. <3

 

I so agree xD

 

I was older than 21 when I had what i count as my first.

 

Well considering normal is what is typical, it's not exacty normal.

 

Nothing wrong with it in my opinion. Like I've said in the past, I'm all in all not that happy with the very idea of virginity and the emphasis placed on it in society...but that's another debate.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21, I'd believe it's not uncommon either.

 

Is Internet Technology normal? Depends (lol worst joke for that month...).

But: Yes, you're pretty young, it's normal don't worry.

 

I'm 22 and stll a virgin if rather wait until I find someone I really love

 

I was when I was 21, lol~ I didn't even have my first real kiss until I was 18 and my first real date even later than that XD;;;;

I was told that sex is a gift and that when you give it to someone, you are giving them a little piece of your heart~ some people like to spread the love around and some like to give it to a select few~ but don't ever rush to give yourself away to someone just to say you're not a virgin~ take your time and it'll be much better if you're doing it for love and not for the word ^.^

 

I'm 1/4 of a gay virgin, which I still count as being virgin. As for being 21 and a virgin, hell it's what I expected to happen. Things come differently in everyone. It's probably more normal for LGBT people to be 21 and virgin tbh

 

Well I won't call my self a virgin but I've yet to have sex with anyone and I'm 26 years old turning 27 this November.. unfortunately. The reason is the same as what pretty much everyone else said. I wanted it to be with a girl I loved, I wanted so badly not to regret my first time and I know even if its awkward and maybe not that satisfying I still wouldn't regret it if it was with someone I genuinely loved and well it didn't work out with the one girl I did love. Honestly I do feel a little embarrassed about it because of my age but that's still not going to hinder me from waiting. So if it's not normal at 21 then damn am I weird.

 

Tee! I'm glad it didn't sound too sappy XD;;;; (*hug*)

 

I am a 21 year old virgin, never had sex or even been dating or even kissed anyone. I feel like it's not exactly normal for a male to be a virgin at 21. But I'm saving myself for the one I love, so I'll probably be a virgin at 31 as well.

 

26 here. Never even kissed or dated a guy :-(