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Ideally, how often would you like to have sex, on average?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by HuskyPup, Oct 20, 2015.

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Ideally, how often would you like to have sex, on average?

  1. Never!

    10.3%
  2. Less than once a month

    5.7%
  3. once a month

    2.3%
  4. once every 2 weeks

    2.3%
  5. once a week

    9.2%
  6. 4-6 times a week

    17.2%
  7. 2-3 times a week

    29.9%
  8. daily

    14.9%
  9. twice a day

    3.4%
  10. lots...more than twice a day

    4.6%
  1. HuskyPup

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    OK, this can apply to people in a relationship, people who would like to be in one, asexuals, people who have multiple partners...everyone, really.

    So, in an ideal world, how often do you think you'd want to have sex?

    For me I think once a day would be average, and just about right; maybe missing a day here and there due to travel, colds and what not, but doubling up on others.
     
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    I voted 4-6 times. Sex is fun, but daily? Mmm, no. Hope my future boyfriend would feel the same too
     
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    Daily... heh. Don't judge me.
     
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    Twice a day!
     
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    Thrice a week....
     
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    1-3 times a week, though I personally plan to wait till I'm older. I'm sure if I somehow am still with my girlfriend in the future, we would probably agree on that.
     
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    I'm not sure. Im very sexual...so either once a day or 4-6 times a week. Maybe twice a day. Depending on if Im extra horny LOL.

    My future boyfriend better have some stamina. LMAO
     
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    Less than I j/o believe it or not.
     
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    I think most days for me. In a perfect world, more than once-a-day would be great, but it's hard finding the time, and sometimes you just feel like crap.
     
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    Considering that it has been nearly 2 years, I would be happy with more often than that.
     
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    Ideally?

    Never.

    Sad, eh? >_>
     
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    2-3 times a week would work pretty well. More than what we can manage now, but sometimes you just don't feel like it.
     
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    Every day. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    These days, I'd say 2 to 3 times a week. Ten years ago, I'd say 4 to 6 times a week. Good question. I haven't seen this question asked here before ... that I can remember.
     
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    I was going to say a bit less than once a day, but ideally, I'd like to every day, even if certain times if it was only quickly, and on others, a lot longer. It tends to relax me, and make me sleep better.
     
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    More than once a week, maybe 2-3. Depends on who I'm with and how I'm feeling but that's about an average.
     
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    If anybody could resist my sexiness, then it's whenever we're both down. Ideally, it's hard to say because I haven't had sex, and it is reasonable to assume I may change my stance afterwards. But maybe not.

    So basically... if I've got the time, I'm gonna leave you speechless like a mime. So every day, if that's what we want. Otherwise, I can wait. Life has more to offer than just that.
     
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    In my current relationship, I'm fine with maybe 1-3 times a week (depending on how much we both want to have sex), although it's obviously not compulsory. I'm not into just casual sex though.
     
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    Ideally, at least once a week, if I have a steady partner. If not, I could literally go a year or more without sex (I masturbate about once-twice a month then, just to keep things going, lol). My sex drive is flexible like that :lol: :grin:
     
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    I voted 2-3 times a week.