Would you say that "declaring an orientation" is even important, or relevant, if the said person does not want or intend to be in a romantic relationship? This is something that's been on my mind, and I thought it would be interesting to hear your opinions on it. Please explain why you answered the way you did.
If you want to go to a certain level with somebody, then yes, it will matter. Communication. Otherwise, you could do without it.
I don't think that sexuality matters when it comes to a platonic relationship. I'm pan-platonic and it basically means I can date people who I don't find sexually attractive nor do I want to do anything intimate with them, but want to care for and support them without I or them having other sexual or romantic relationships. As long as I and the other person(s) agree, then it isn't a problem [same as any relationship].
In response to RawringSnake "without I or them having other sexual or romantic relationships" Friends can have other sexual or romantic relationships - that's the difference.
Yeah, but in that case they are overstepping the boundaries of what a regular friendship is supposed to be (and they know it). These people are not happy with being "just friends" and want something more. Something that's out of "just friends" territory. That isn't just friendship, that's something else entirely.
This. It's not the same thing but an analogy is like "does it matter if you have a favorite color if you are totally color blind?" If there is no basis then it doesn't matter.
I think that self-awareness and honesty are very important, and labels can be useful tools in those regards. If you achieve good enough self-awareness, you'll know where you are on the continuum from 100% straight to 100% gay enough to know which sexual orientation label (straight/bi/gay) most accurately describes your sexual orientation.
WAIT Is there such a thing as partnerships that are compatible romantically and not sexually, and vice versa? Even ones that break down sexuality and gender barriers? Has anyone here attempted this or successfully accomplished this in a relationship? I'd be very interested in meeting them if so.
It only matters as much as it matters to you. If you are comfortable without it then you don't need it, but there's nothing wrong with having a sexual orientation even if you aren't going to be into romance and stuff.
