right as im out at uni now i fiured i could look for dates who are men, the problems are: -how do you know a guy is gay -how do you pull a guy -how can i keep it a secret from my parents -how do i determine who's out of my league any help would be much appreciated, steve
-you look in the right places, gay bars are good xD -talk, look for signals, act -don't tell them :S -no one x
parents? you are at UNI so everything should stay outta their reach and you should be fine. League? i guess if they just don't seem interested then they are outta your league? you could let your self be pursued and go with who you want to and that way you won't have to worry. knowing? idk you just do or go to places with lots of gays/ get someone who can help you.
Magic. If you want to know who is gay, use magic. I believe the spell is: "Hocus Pocus, Gaydar FOCUS." Make sure you bring a rainbow flag; it makes the spell more potent.
lmfao im loving that, ive just been asked dozens of questions by my flatmates, from preference to whether i own certain sex toys lol!
>>>how do you know a guy is gay You either go where the gay guys are (the gay student union is always a good bet), or you ask. >>>how do you pull a guy The same way you pull yourself - gently, with one hand, as the other hand reaches below to... ...wait, that WAS what you meant, right? No? Hm. OK. >>>how can i keep it a secret from my parents Don't call them up directly afterward and say "Hey, guess what I just did!" >>>how do i determine who's out of my league Nobody is out of your league. Nobody. You'll no doubt run into gay guys who simply aren't interested in you "like that" (we all got our likes and dislikes), but if they're on your team, they're in your league. Lex
lol thanks lex, i realise now that pulling is a bit of a colloquial term, i meant how do you get chatting to a guy, ive just spend literally an hour convincing my mate i really am bi and not just trying to trick him, perhaps the weirdest reaction i have had so far
