Groped!

Well, that's sexual harassment. I don't know India's legislation, but I'm guessing it's illegal in India, and that you can call the police if that happens again. I know it's illegal under international law. "No one shall be subjected to [...] degrading treatment" - Article 5, The Universal Declaration of Human Rights

I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. Remember that you have rights and that those men have no right to grope you like that when you haven't given consent and you feel uneasy by it.

 

Shouldn't you be flattered?

 

First of all, don't blame yourself, at all. You're fine as you are, and it's the other people acting as they are that's the problem, here. I'd explain to them how you find it inappropriate, and also, ask them how they'd feel if somebody did that to them. I'm not sure how varying cultural norms are playing into this, but they have no right to touch you, period. I'd tell them to stop, and then, avoid them.

But know that your body is OK, and you're not the problem here; it's other people, and whatever societal 'norms' leading them to act this way.

Hope this helps,

~h. pup

 

Please don't blame yourself, none of it is your fault. I would say that you should tell someone. He has no right to be touching you like that, and you shouldn't let him make you feel uncomfortable.

 

Clear cut harassment.

 

So. Ask where their mother/sister/aunt etc is so you can do it to them?

 

Straight dudes your age do that kind of stuff all the time. It's not a sexual advance, just something they think is funny. If they are friends of yours, who presumably don't know you're gay, don't worry about it. They're just joking around with you. However, if these guys aren't people you know very well then that's pretty creepy/inappropriate.

 

Sexual Harrassment.
You should tell them to stop, even if it's a joke, it makes you uncomfortable so you shouldn't have to deal with it.

 

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I've been known to punch the hand that touches me. Sexual harassment isn't just a "funny friendly thing". Being friends with someone doesn't mean it's okay to violate their boundaries.

 

I actually understand your situation because in high school at one stage, two guys who were joking around made me feel very uncomfortable by rubbing me with their butts. In my case they were making fun of me and I felt more uncomfortable because they were making fun of me while also inappropriately rubbing up on me and they also made me feel claustrophobic cause it was two of them. So I understand how you feel. You should tell them that you don't like it and if they don't listen go and tell someone like I did. That stopped them for me

 

Wow 0-0 Seriously, harassment! tell. the. police.

Is it really freaky to say this sounds like a yaoi I've read? They always gloss over the things wrong with what these guys do don't they?

Like dude! No question about it!! This is downright sexual harassment and it's hurting you, so no excuse for these dudes!!!!

 

Hahahahahahahaha :roflmao:
Ahem, sorry, you just reminded me of my first guy crush. He had the most prominent bubble butt ever. That butt had been groped, spanked, sat on, sometimes by me and sometimes by others. And yes, sometimes he looked uncomfortable by it but I enjoyed making him uncomfortable (No regret here!) The bastard could be cheeky, he felt my butt with his feet and muttered "flat, lifeless butt" :dry:

Anyway, other posters are right. Don't feel guilty by any of this. Your personal boundaries must be respected.

Armydude is quite right that straight guys act like that, but that usually happens when they are close friends. Watching two dudes dry humping in the morning was entertaining xD