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How do //you// flirt with the same gender?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by waternation, Nov 14, 2015.

  1. waternation

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    Heya, just wanting to know how some people on here flirt with the same gender. Curious!!

    Most of the time I just try to be really friendly until I'm sure that they might be interested, but it's really hard to tell!

    Anyway, what are your techniques :icon_wink
     
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    Lol who has a technique?
     
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    I usually art conversations about things we like, then if that person is an academic genius or nerd, I'd call him a genius and talk about tech.
    I don't touch or mush, I'm into little silent stares or gazes.
    I don't do this intentionally but when I'm talking to my crush I just get lost and end up staring into his eyes! lol :slight_smile:
     
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    :lol: Lol, yes!! Who has super awesome flirting technique??? :thumbsup:

    ---------- Post added 14th Nov 2015 at 09:01 PM ----------

    Ohh, eye staring thing :slight_smile: Lol, yep :slight_smile: I do that too!! (by accident too :confused:)
     
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    I generally pay them compliments and it's mostly in the gestures/body language and the looks. I'm quite terrible at overtly flirting but in my case it's just being really nice and expressing it through subtle actions and movement...that doesn't make so much sense now that I say it out loud, but there you go :lol:
     
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    Hehehe
    And yeah, I usually grill my crush about a girl who stalks him and he gets all blushy :slight_smile: :roflmao:. And I then I rib him about him blushing which in turn causes more blush!
    Cute! lol
     
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    I don't have any particular techniques. I just be myself with the occasional relevant joke here and there.
     
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    How do you flirt with anyone for that matter?
    XD
     
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    How do you flirt with anyone for that matter?
    XD
     
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    I am physically incapable of acting romantic and/or cute, so I kind of avoid flirting. Usually I just develop a friendship and try to make him laugh as much as possible.
     
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    My flirt button is broken. I wouldn't know the first thing about flirting - I have always been terrible at it, haha.
     
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    I've never flirted and I don't know how.n.. others have but I mistook them for being nice, because peeps are allowed to be nice right? I'm oblivious when it comes to flirting XD, but generally the guys are very suave and v it's usually older men for some reason...
     
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    I am figuratively a potato in a trench coat; what's flirting?

    I guess if they make a joke about their being good looking or the likes, or if they talk about a compliment they received from someone else, I'll respond in some vein of "I'm not denying it." and normally it's only if we've been friends for a while.

    I don't know how to people. Flirting is not really my thing. I'll be either outright and write a note like, "hey, I think you're really cool and I probably like you." or I just won't act at all on my feelings. One time I wrote a valentine's note to a guy I liked, didn't really work all that well. Here it is.

    Uhh. Yeah.
     
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    I cover myself in lube and then slide down a hallway to show him how smooth I can be.



    Wait, that's not how it works, isn't it?
     
  15. ModernCat

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    I have a flirting skill equivalent of 12 year old's. I tease, and be kind of rude to them without meaning to. Not recommended.
     
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    I just gaze at their bodies and physique and never get to the flirting stage cause I always get so nervous. But here is me in my fantasies.

    A fierce and cute boy who flaunts all his stuff and goes all out with flirting.
    This fantasy boy is based off me and what I would do if I had a man.