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A question for all gay/lesbians out there :)

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  1. MayaBee

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    Imagine you wake up to a beautiful girl/guy sleeping next to you, you had a great time yesterday.
    You (gay/lesbian) would come to know that person is bisexual.

    Would you stop meeting them because you fear them running of with the other gender?
    Or would you not care?
     
    #1 MayaBee, Nov 17, 2015
  2. mychemromance99

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    I would not care :slight_smile: .
     
    #2 mychemromance99, Nov 17, 2015
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    Nope, I wouldn't care. I don't think bisexuals are more likely to cheat or run off with other people.
    Cheating is a moral issue anyway, not a sexuality one.
     
    #3 hapa, Nov 17, 2015
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    Why would I care... I mean they already woke up next to me, haha
     
    #4 WhereWeWere, Nov 17, 2015
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    Not at all, haha. There's no reason to stop seeing them.
     
    #5 Steve FS, Nov 17, 2015
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    *Runs for the hills to find the opposite gender*

    Nah, I'm more likely to hate you than cheat on you, and I barely hate anyone :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #6 ScatteredEarth, Nov 17, 2015
  7. quietisviolent

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    I don't think it's any different than being gay/straight because people can Always run away to someone else so no, I wouldn't care
     
    #7 quietisviolent, Nov 17, 2015
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    Gay or bi. It doesn't matter at all
     
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    In such a case, I suspect that her being bisexual would be the last thing on my mind! :astonished:
     
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    I would not care. I already woke up next to him, so...

    It just doesn't matter.
     
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    So long as they love me for who I am I wouldn't care.
     
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    I wouldn't care, heres why. him/her being bisexual doesn't mean they are monogamously challenged. If he were to leave me for a women, it wouldn't mean they wouldn't have gone and left me for another man. A cheater is a cheater no matter their sexual preference.
     
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    Being bisexual doesn't mean the person will most likely cheat as cheaters come in all sexual orientations.
    I'm pansexual but closest to Gay as can be as I have a high preference to men. But I say, if someone was bi I really wouldnt care.
     
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    Nope always found it really odd people would care about that.
     
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    I don't see how this can be an issue. The chances of them leaving me for the other gender are as big as the chances of another gay guy leaving me for some random dude.

    So no, I don't mind.
     
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    There are apparently people who care, but I don't get it.

    Honestly, If somebody can genuinely care for one as crazy as me, I'd be an absolute nutcase to dump them over something like that. That's the way I see it, anyway.
     
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    I'd be more concerned about what happened and who on Earth they are (unless it was someone I knew,but still), and if I have to think about tests and looking at their history and stuff (plus finding out their age for obvious consent reasons), so I think them being bisexual would be the least of my concerns.

    But um yeah, probably over-thinking this question here...

    It seems kind of silly to dump someone on such a trivial reason, especially if we were compatible.
     
    #17 Canterpiece, Nov 17, 2015
  18. LesbianThrasher

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    That would actually be a major disappointment to me because I'm not really into anyone who's bisexual.
     
    #18 LesbianThrasher, Nov 17, 2015
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    nope. sexuality has nothing to do with fidelity.
     
    #19 AlexanderDragon, Nov 17, 2015
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    I would be a little concerned but I wouldn't stop seeing them
     
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