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Old 19th Jan 2009, 03:50 PM   #1
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Default I love it when people ask

why i'm gay. its like yerr i didn't choose it.
But tbh, if I could choose i'd well still be gay.
I think its mint lmao.
I wish most of the straight lads i know were gay too
lmao.
Anyone else in agreeement?
Yerr thought so
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Old 19th Jan 2009, 03:54 PM   #2
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Default Re: I love it when people ask

I don't know, sometimes I curse being gay, other times I embrace it, you know? Only once has anyone asked me if I was gay, and that was because of a mishapp on my facebook status...I denied it of course, this was months ago...
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Old 19th Jan 2009, 03:56 PM   #3
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Default Re: I love it when people ask

Almost noone has asked me why, but usually it's annoying.
I don't know why. Subject change.
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Old 19th Jan 2009, 04:35 PM   #4
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why i'm gay. its like yerr i didn't choose it.
But tbh, if I could choose i'd well still be gay.
I think its mint lmao.
I wish most of the straight lads i know were gay too
lmao.
Anyone else in agreeement?
Yerr thought so
xx
I've only been asked this once, and the person was trying to be supportive and asked the question in complete seriousness. I didn't know what to say, so I just responded "Well, I personally have no idea. Freud says daddy doesn't love me".
If only he knew who Freud was.

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I wish most of the straight lads i know were gay too
I couldn't agree more !!!!
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Old 19th Jan 2009, 07:46 PM   #5
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Default Re: I love it when people ask

I have only been asked once. It was by a ladie freind at work of whom I did want to tell anyway. I was out to her and she was shoocked because she never would have guessed. I kind of gave her some hints to build up to aking so when she did it was and still is nice have a freind to whom I can be open with and she can truly understand me now.
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Old 19th Jan 2009, 10:32 PM   #6
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Default Re: I love it when people ask

Unfortunately I've been asked a lot.

It doesn't bother me unless its someone asking me why followed by your going to hell or thats disgusting. That pisses me off. Or asking me why I choose to be gay, then saying I don't get it, why be gay? Duh! I didn't choose to be gay, I am gay. When I was a kid I would have probably said why would I choose this quote unquote "Lifestyle" to make life more difficult? Hello, seriously, come on. Why be whatever you are b/c thats who you are. Its simple, people just make things so difficult on themselves.
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Old 20th Jan 2009, 09:21 AM   #7
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Default Re: I love it when people ask

I got asked that all the time at my old school. I took to answering with "why not?" or "I don't tell you how to live your life" (occasionally in a Patrick Star Voice) Or, when boys asked, "because of your face" because I am THAT grown up!
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